And he doesn't love you and he moved far, far away and he acts like he hates you and he really doesn't... any questions hpnnarniafreak@aim.com
2006-06-20 02:45:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
start to fill ur days wid lots of different things, go out wid friends alot, n soon u wil forget n meet some1 new , even if it takes a yr , if its not ment to b it wont b
2006-06-20 02:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by sweetlipsy69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to take it one day at a time... time IS a great healer, it's a cliche but a cliche for a reason... In the meantime, don't contact him (you only prolong the agony) - make a clean break and slowly get rid of anything that reminds you of him - you'll be surprised how easy this becomes too, as you gain more distance from him and the grief turns to anger at what a **** he was to you... then one day, you'll wake up and he won't be the first thing you think of anymore... Whatever you do, don't chase him, keep your dignity - if he wants you , he knows where you are.
2006-06-20 02:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just think about how lucky I am to be free to do what I want and see whom I want rather than living in a false world with him.
He did you a big favour!
Believe me, you're lucky, it could be much much worse. In a couple of weeks/months time, you will not care about any of the stuff that you believe is SO important right now. Face it, people break up every day. Most relationships end this way, so you're gonna have to get used to it.
Remember, you don't need a reason to be happy, just be happy.
2006-06-20 02:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by Zane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your never really going to get over him. He will always be a part of
your life even if you never get back with him, or if you have not seen in in years. You will always remember him. He's smile, laugh, kisses, hugs. All of the things that made you feel so good. You just hae to move on. Sometimes it is good to remember good times. It makes you stronger. Don't be sad or hurt, know that it ended for a reason and one day you will find another man as good or even better as your last. Keep a smile on your face and think positive. Life is to short to stay in one place mentally and physically.
2006-06-20 03:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi pretty sorry to hear what happen to u, but time really heal, i just broke up with my gf not long ago...i love her deeply too...but time will heal the pain..move on, hang out with ur friends..if can dont contact him, my case she is my classmate, i cant avoid her..u are more lucky than me...but remember u pain and care for him, does he even care about that?? why prolong this painful thing? life is short..let go might be a better option...if he want u he will come back to u, dun ever cry to him, dun ever beg him, just give the hell out of him and enjoy urself...show u can live without him and find a hot guy show off in front of him... u can do it, dont give up..is not doomsday there are plenty of hot guy around....wish u all the best :)
2006-06-20 03:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny at times like this you need you friends, a couple of bottles of wine, a tub of hagan das and some really good chats. It is going to take time and in some ways i don't think you ever forget the hurt but it will dull down. If it was meant to be it would be and no doubt out there is a fantastic guy who will love and respect you as much as you deserve. get your girlies together, get dressed up and get out and about. if you look good you feel good and if your out and about you don't have time to be sad! you'll pull through this sweetie big hugs and kisses
2006-06-20 03:08:24 · answer #6 · answered by bamba_982 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I'm sorry that you are in this situation. It's very painful, but you just have to accept that he doesn't love you. Maybe your love has become like an obsession. I think you must find other things to think about and to do - the most important thing is start getting busy with things that you like to do and hopefully, this will take your mind off this man and maybe, even, if you are lucky, you will meet someone else who will return your love.
2006-06-20 02:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by happy inside 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not easy and it hurts like hell but u just have to take each day as it comes time does heal-its a cliche but its true, ull never lose the love for him and ull always be wondering what if???but everything happens for a reason and ull meet someone who deserves u and loves u as much as u love him. Its hard but u have to move on if thers no sign of reconciliation, lifes too short to hang around wasting time. i wish u all the luck and happiness u deserve
2006-06-20 02:50:53 · answer #8 · answered by browneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really all you can do is move on, If you don't you will be continually hurt by his actions and words. Better he's not in your life then being there and making you miserable. That way you can remember the good times with out the taint or bad ones.
2006-06-20 02:50:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and surround yourself with friends! Go out and have a good time, and eventually, you will let this person go on your own.
And don't make it worse, or drag it out longer by calling, writing, emailing and having expectations you will turn it around. Call your girls up and go get some ice cream - and just keep living your life.
2006-06-20 02:50:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋