I decied to take a break but it was since the friday that just passed but we wanna get back already what should I do?? I love with all my heart but off time or enough time passed by??
2006-06-20 02:28:18 · 11 answers · asked by Shorty06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends what you mean exactly by "dating". . . . .
2006-06-20 02:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by Romeo 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Only you can say if enough time has passed by in order for you to feel comfortable with the changes. I would suggest sitting down and writing a list or a paragraph about the reasons why you decided to "take a break" in the first place.
Secondly, ask yourself (or an impartial, trustworthy friend) if you have actually solved the issues that caused you to break it off. Instinctively, you knew you needed some "down time" to get your thoughts together, and you asked for the time.. but did you use it properly, or did you just pine for him the whole time?
Also, think about the reason(s) why you want to get back together. Do your reasons fall along the lines of desperation, loneliness, neediness, etc.? Or do they have to do with the fact that you have come to an understanding about certain important issues in your life, you have learned something, and you are ready to give the best part of yourself to someone else?
Only you can say. Good luck.
2006-06-20 02:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by Realmstarr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you 12?
2006-06-20 02:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by Troy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him i don't understand the break , it will only make you far from each author ,Boothe of you will have the time to think on this relation in a different way saw be careful maybe this break will cues a break up
2006-06-20 02:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by mambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, why take a break?
2006-06-20 02:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by rednecklady17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey. dont play around with your realtionship like that.
if you broke up for a good reason leave it like that. but if the feelings mutual dont let your love go.
2006-06-20 02:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by cher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was your reasoning for the break - usually it's that you had other interests...
2006-06-20 02:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by richard b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you "love" him, why did you want to take a break????
2006-06-20 02:33:58 · answer #8 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm
if you real love him you can't stand a break away from him
2006-06-20 02:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by Massy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and tell him that you miss him. If he does't suggest getting back together ... wellll.... that pretty much says it all.
Good luck
2006-06-20 02:32:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋