Ok. My ex broke up with me coz of his mother didnt like me and he was too weak to stand up to her. But our relationship was great besides the fact that he DID THAT. So, to move on - i need to accept what was good, and forget what was bad- but i CANT. im so angry at him. someitmes i think that if i saw him i would beat him up- ok not LITERALLY- but thats how hurt i am . and i know htat in order to move on i need to forgive him and realize hes not a bad guy- because hes not- hes just weak like putty. any help??
2006-06-20 02:16:06 · 3 answers · asked by Leila 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a leopard does not change it's spots- he will not ever become a man and it will drive you crazy- I think you are more aggravated that he dumped you than anything else. Move on and find a guy that will not take direction from mommy.
2006-06-20 02:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by grisgris100 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are hurt, you are angry, things did not turn out as you expected. He let you down.
Now you are hurtiing and it eating you up. Is that a good place? I think not.
Its not just compassion that is needed here. First you need forgiveness for him. Why do I say that? Read the Lord's prayer from the Bible - "forgive us as we forgive others".
Do you want peace? Try forgiveness...
2006-06-20 10:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by Peter H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be mad....own it and live it...Just don't see him when your doing this. It's hard to take that sort of harassment from your own mother, and since they know what's best, it's hard for a kid to say no mom, your wrong. But he didn't say that, and your right he may be weak. Having that said, do you want a man that has a weak character?
2006-06-20 09:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋