How do you know if a guy is worth your wait? I mean I am well was well am I don’t know. But anywho I am talking to him and one day things are great and the next day its like nothing happened. When we are together we are very touchy and showing how much we care about each other and kissing and everything. We let people know we are together. But then he turns around and doesn’t call for 2 days, and I know I can call him but he said he would and if he doesn’t care enough to call me when he says he is going to how do I know he cares at all? I am a very impatient person so its killing me to know why he hasn’t called and what is going o between us. I know just wait and see right, well i cant I want to know now! Any suggestions........
2006-06-20 02:11:24 · 11 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop using your heart so much and use that head of yours. If you don't feel like waiting for him to call then don't. Live your life he will either catch up or not.
2006-06-20 02:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by ronce_1118 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
This is kinda sounding like you are his "booty call".
Next time you are together, tell him no touching! You want to take it slow. See how he responds to that. If he freaks out, you will know the relationship isn't worth it.
If he is alright with it and can go a couple weeks without physical contact, just dates and long phone calls, then you know he likes you for your mind. Most young guys only care about the physical stuff.
13-25 year old men are just controlled by hormones! When he is the one you will know it! There is no mistaking it!
From what you have written, tell this guy to hit the road. There are more fish in the sea!
2006-06-20 09:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, pick up the phone and call him.
If this is the right guy for you, then you will know. The fact that you are asking questions about it suggests that perhaps you think he isn't.
The guy is obviously sending you mixed messages- he's affectionate to you in public, but doesn't call you for two days.
Sit him down and ask him what is up with him- BUT be prepared that the answer may not be what you are looking for.
Good Luck to you.
2006-06-20 09:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by ninamcguinness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that would be something you would have to ask him upfront, I wouldn't be waiting for him to call I would go look for him and put everything on the table to find out what it is that you both want from this relationship,,if he wants out well,,theres other fish in the seas alot of times even better ones,
2006-06-20 09:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by angelmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience is a virtue i'll advice you to adopt. And i also think you are quick to jump to conclusions, which also doesnt help. Instead of you being apprehensive of the situation why don't you make a move, it just might be the missing key.
2006-06-20 09:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by cyberpaul007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are treating this as a serious relationship and he is not, that is the conflict. If you decide to stay, then you have to be more patient. You are not his priority.
2006-06-20 09:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry but i hate reading and when i see alot of reading i give up
2006-06-20 09:19:38 · answer #7 · answered by t_ibrahim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u dont feel ur being loved whan he breakes promises!
u r his priority!
2006-06-20 09:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by kissigrl45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm ull find out with time
2006-06-20 09:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what now?
2006-06-20 09:13:36 · answer #10 · answered by askanswerdiscover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋