My GF's name is Pam, and the other girl's name is Katie. I told Katie yesterday that I like her, and my GF doesn't know... What do I do? I don't want to be unfaithful, but I want to be happy.
2006-06-20 01:48:42 · 15 answers · asked by homebouy69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First i have to say I love this question. The reason is this question is something so many face and they seldom ask for advice.
The first thing to do is be honest with yourself and these two girls. Let your heart guide you to what it is your wanting. I can tell you that your present girlfriend is going to be hurt and she will show her emotions so you be tender with her when you break the news. There is not going to be an easy way to do this but you have to be honest.
I dont approve of breaking up with anyone for someone else but I am taking it that does not concern you but I would like to add that there is a reason this type of thing happens and if you would like to avoid this from happening again you might want to read on.
I noticed in today's world many young folks have this here today gone tomorrow type of relationships which is brought on by trying to rush through life. They do not take the time to really get to know each other before making a union. there is nothing wrong with dating several people and getting to know them better before deciding who we want to spend more time with. As in B/G friend.
I see kids having to deal with so many pressures but what they do not understand is many of these pressures they put on themselves for the sillest of reasons. life can be enjoyed if taken a bit slower. Such a rush to grow up will only make you bitter and lonely in the end. I speak from experience but with an open heart and mind. learn to take smaller bites and savor life it can be good but you will never taste what life has to offer if you gulp it down.
2006-06-20 02:05:41 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 24⤊ 3⤋
the best thing to do is let do of Pam, be honest with her and you'll be able to sleep at night. If you like Katie i say go for her but wait till it's over with Pam. that way you are not a liar you are not a cheat you just a great honest guy, and I think that's what you would rather be.
2006-06-20 01:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by Tanya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date Pam on mondays and tuesdays, and Katie on thursdays and wednesdays, which leaves you with fridays for a night out with the boys and saturdays and sundays to worry about them catching you with the other and kicking your nuts in, to your great chagrin and the amusement of all the rest of your friends.
2006-06-20 02:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by Cain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your heart it will never lead you astray!!!!!Do what is going to make you happy,life is too short to be wasted on lost opportunities and always think but what if..........!!!!!!!!If you want Katie just tell Pam in a nice and honest way,let her down easy although breaking up is never easy and someones' always gonna get hurt but she may understand and she will get over it in time!!!!!!If Katie makes you happy will take a chance and go 4 it!!!!!Good luck!!!!!!!!
2006-06-20 01:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by Baybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide who you really want to be with for real. Then, you need to nicely tell the other one the truth before it goes too far too long. The longer you wait, the more likely you are to get a swift kick in the balls. Trust me, if you keep it hidden, it will resurface somehow later and you don't want that!! Honestly, you just need to date for a while....give it time. Like, don't make the commitment until you've found the one that truly makes you happy. That way it doesn't matter if you see another girl.....you're not committed.
2006-06-20 01:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by terrapinqueen76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 08:12:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, stay away from the tow girls at least ONE day and choose the one you care about more and tell the other one the truth be genteel
2006-06-20 01:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by Massy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man. Stand up and tell your girlfriend the truth. No one wants to be made a fool.
2006-06-20 01:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by AlphaFemale 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then leave pam for katie
2006-06-20 01:51:22 · answer #9 · answered by 42 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your self, tell her and add my name & email, so i can involve her far away from yo and Kati for short time . LOOOLL
2006-06-20 01:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by sherif 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r very bad... if u were not sure that u liked ur first girl friend then y did u make her ur gf... choose the nice one anyway... if u have been rude u will be punished
2006-06-20 01:52:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋