2006-06-20 01:25:52 · 44 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"god" says it's alright to be with anyone, irregardless of age, gender, race, etc... so of course its alright
2006-06-20 01:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by death_saint06 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I was in love with an older guy once. He was 16 years older. He had two kids. He broke up with me because he said the age difference bothered them. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. But I think that love is always worth taking a risk on. If you are both cool with the age difference (and your 18), then go for it.
2006-06-20 01:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by allenlynn23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
story from the little box:-
It's meaningful....
Once upon a time, there was a teacher and his student
lying down under a big tree near a big grass area.
Then, suddenly, the student asked the teacher,
Student : Teacher, I'm confused, how can we find our soul-mate?
Could you please help me?
Teacher : (Silent for few second, than he answered)
Well, it's a pretty hard and easy question.
Student : (Thinking hard) Huh???
Teacher : Look on that way, there are a lot of grass
there, why don't you walk there but please never walk
backward, just walk straight ahead. On your way, try
to find a beautiful grass and pick it up then give it to me. But just one.
Student : Well, ok then... wait for me... (walked straight ahead to the grass field).
A few minutes later...
Student : I'm back.
Teacher : Em, well I don't see any beautiful grass on your hand
Student : On my journey, I found few beautiful grass,
but I thought that I would find a better one, so I didn't pick it up.
But I didn't realize that I'm at the end of the field, and I hadn't
picked up any. Because you told me not to go back, so I didn't go
back.
Teacher : That's what happened in real life.
What is the message of this story?
* Grass - is people around you
* Beautiful Grass - is people that attract you
* Grass Field - is time
* In looking for your soulmate, please don't always
compare and hope that there will be a better one. By
doing that, you'll waste your lifetime, cause remember..
"Time Never Goes Back".
It applies the same in finding your ideal life
partner, your suitable career or business, therefore
the morale is LOVE & grab hold of the opportunity
that you have now, don't waste time!
2006-06-20 01:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by idiotguidebook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as everybody says it depends. if the age gap is more than 15 yrs then it is not ok. if ur 18 and the guy is 33 then if u have ur first child at say 30 he will be 45, if u have another child at 35 he will be 50. if the age gap is longer u have to think about if u have children. do u want ur children to have a dad or a grandad. personally i feel that it is not ok but u have to tell us how old u are and how old he is to make this descion
2006-06-20 21:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by rocky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, as long as your old enough to date an older guy. 18+ and you should be able to answer this question on your own. If you're under the legal age limit in your state and the guy is older, he's got a whole lot of problems.
2006-06-20 01:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by ndvsne1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old u are....if its illegal for him, its wrong. If you're both of legal, consenting age its perfectly ok. I've dated older guys for years....they are definitely more mature, and 9 times out of 10 will treat you more like a lady than the young ones will....
2006-06-20 01:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to be in love with an older guy, there is nothing wrong with it. My guy friend is 10 years older than me and i like him alot and he knows cuz I have told him, he doesn't care, cus he likes me too. So go ahead a like a guy who is older than you, if you tell them, they can be comfortable with it...sometimes it depends on the guy, some guys can be immature and think you have "cooties" or something or some kind of germ that will kill them...IDIOTS!!! well hey i wish you the best of luck.
2006-06-20 01:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel it is ok, just as long as he is not too much older (could have too much experience compared to you) or you are under age 18 and hes over 18 (then that would be illegal in most states).
2006-06-20 01:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by prodigy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on ages.If you are over the age of 18 then yes.......age is just a number.If you are not 18 and he is then you should probably re think the whole issue so he doesnt end up going to jail.
2006-06-20 01:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on ur age. if ur under 18 and in love with a 27yr old man then no its not ok. if ur both over 18 an 21 then who cares what people think.
2006-06-20 01:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, older guys are experienced in treating women right
2006-06-20 02:43:22 · answer #11 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋