ok so im an extremly shy person when it comes to talking to the ladies......and i was wondering what are some good questions i can ask her to get the convo going....anything will be good...
2006-06-20 01:11:40 · 14 answers · asked by im_too_hott 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im gay and i need to know how to spark a convo up....
2006-06-20 01:23:24 · update #1
Be well informed and be able to talk on a wide range of subjects. Read magazines, listen to the news, read the current best sellers, see the latest movies, etc.
Stay informed on the major news happenings of the world.
Maintain eye contact. Look at everyone in the table while you are speaking so that everyone will feel like they are included in the conversation.
Listen to others; do not interrupt or finish another's statement.
If you are uncomfortable starting a conversation, be a good listener and as the conversation moves on, agree or disagree with the subject matter and you will find yourself more comfortable.
Be interested in what other people do for a living.
Be able to flow from one topic to another with ease.
Do not pretend to be an expert on topics that you are not. If there is a topic you are unfamiliar with, ask them to explain. They will be more than happy to do so and you learn a thing or two.
Do not correct another's grammar or pronunciation in public.
Gracefully accept any compliments given to you. Be liberal with your compliments, but make sure they are genuine.
Do not ask a professional for advice or information at a social function or casual meeting. Especially if there is a doctor or a lawyer in the group. Most professionals complain that they are constantly asked for advice.
Be sensitive to a shy person within the group. Bring him or her into the conversation by asking questions.
Keep the conversation flowing, trying to avoid an awkward silence.
Topics you should try to avoid:
1. Your health, or more importantly, your illness.
2. Another's health, or more importantly, his/her illness.
3. Sensitive topics such as religion, politics, etc.
4. Money
5. Tragedies
6. Gossip
7. Sex
2006-06-20 01:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by Ö I ^Çarê Ö 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your nic name is "im_too_hott", whats the problem??
I'm guessing you're not_so_hot
Thats fine, introduce yourself and offer to buy them a drink.
Be polite. If you get the "who the fcuk are you" look, move over to the next one. NB: some ladies will wink and smile at you to leed you on that they are interested, but all they want is for some sucker to buy them a drink and then they dissapear into the night. So, here is what you do... you buy her a drink and if she says "i'm going to the bathroom, be back in a sec" you say "thanx, i'll keep your drink for you". That way you got nothing to lose but a sponging_*****
2006-06-20 01:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety just be yourself and it will come naturally. especially if you really want to meet a certain someone that you have been wanting to meet start with a smile and just feel the vibe and ask her a question such as where did she get her shoes you have a pair similar to hers and then of course she'll smile and say something like oh really you do and just take it from there then say oh do you come here often well depending where your at just be spontanious just ask anything the conversation will flow naturally believe me you Good Luck hun
2006-06-20 01:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by gia666@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off...you need to come out of the shy mode and get with it...or be single and alone...women like men to be interesting, intelligent, sexy, funny and very romantic...
Ask what her likes and dislikes are...what her future plans and goals areWhat she wants in a man...trust me after those topics, you will have "LOTS" to talk about...
2006-06-20 01:22:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never thought of it being difficult to approach someone of the same sex.Just treat her like you would any other friend.Try not to make your intentions obvious and let nature take its course.
2006-06-23 09:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by Professor Riddle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the reason for your shyness
if a boy is shy of talking to a girl then thts a good reason
but y r u shy talking to girls?????????
and are u shy talking to boys??????????
plzz add some details
2006-06-20 01:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by alka_rawat2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if all else fails...a cheesy pick-up line followed by a good laugh letting her know that you really weren't serious...could work pretty well.
2006-06-20 03:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by paratechfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 whats your name?
2006-06-20 01:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by ibjuscoolin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask more about her... age, work, hobbies, interests, etc... if there's something you don't know let her explain it to let her know that you're interested.... then if there's anything that you can relate to just go from there...
2006-06-20 01:18:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, How you doing? what's your name? what do you do? what kind of movie can I take you to this evening?
2006-06-20 01:15:49 · answer #10 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋