i met a lady who has big boobs and is slightly over weight, but she has it going on...she does not have roles or cellulite....and is working on her body, so I would not say she is fat....holla guys
2006-06-20 01:01:32 · 15 answers · asked by rayrayray1359 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should not worry so much what other people think, if you like her and she is beautiful to you, forget what other people say, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. and like you said, she is working on her weight, I myself used to carry around 20 pounds too much and lost them, with the help of my fiancee....but we worked together and had fun doing it together...but I did it because I want to be healthy and have a child. don't make someone do something because you feel uncomfortable around them, good luck to you...God Bless.
2006-06-20 01:50:07 · answer #1 · answered by angel_fire_2149 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
story from the little box:-
It's meaningful....
Once upon a time, there was a teacher and his student
lying down under a big tree near a big grass area.
Then, suddenly, the student asked the teacher,
Student : Teacher, I'm confused, how can we find our soul-mate?
Could you please help me?
Teacher : (Silent for few second, than he answered)
Well, it's a pretty hard and easy question.
Student : (Thinking hard) Huh???
Teacher : Look on that way, there are a lot of grass
there, why don't you walk there but please never walk
backward, just walk straight ahead. On your way, try
to find a beautiful grass and pick it up then give it to me. But just one.
Student : Well, ok then... wait for me... (walked straight ahead to the grass field).
A few minutes later...
Student : I'm back.
Teacher : Em, well I don't see any beautiful grass on your hand
Student : On my journey, I found few beautiful grass,
but I thought that I would find a better one, so I didn't pick it up.
But I didn't realize that I'm at the end of the field, and I hadn't
picked up any. Because you told me not to go back, so I didn't go
back.
Teacher : That's what happened in real life.
What is the message of this story?
* Grass - is people around you
* Beautiful Grass - is people that attract you
* Grass Field - is time
* In looking for your soulmate, please don't always
compare and hope that there will be a better one. By
doing that, you'll waste your lifetime, cause remember..
"Time Never Goes Back".
It applies the same in finding your ideal life
partner, your suitable career or business, therefore
the morale is LOVE & grab hold of the opportunity
that you have now, don't waste time!
2006-06-20 01:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by idiotguidebook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No wonder women think that "us guys" are pigs. I have alot of women friends that would be considered "fat" or "obese" by most guys. You know the expression that guys use "she has a nice personality" (which translates to other guys - she's fat). Well I'd prefer to talk to a person with a nice personality anyday. Too many people judge people by their appearance (therefore showing how shallow they are). It doesn't matter what's on the outside, it's who the person is.
2006-06-20 01:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fat is what you think is fat. To me a fat girl is someone who is visually not appealing because their body mass takes over and you cant see their neck! Hell, the can't see their own feet.
That's fat! Anything below that is just thick or heavy set.
My opinion!
2006-06-20 01:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by nuked25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife is a big girl and I love everything about her. I wouldn't trade her in on a younger smaller model for all the gold in the world. I see FAT girls that gross me out, but they have beauty for someone and everyone has something for someone else. Be nice and remember, you can't complain about the speck in your brothers eye when you have a plank in your own eye. We all have our faults... and I have many. And mind you own damn business kindly. Live and let live. Ultimately, it's in the eye of the beholder.... you know?
2006-06-20 01:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by Mountain Dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a fine line between fat and thick....
I would venture to say that regardless of height anything over 175 pounds is fat.
of course the longer you go without sex... i know ..i know that 200 lbs is lookinggood to you about now... [smile]
2006-06-20 01:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by ibjuscoolin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may be a medical definition but I think it varies from person to person. You know she's fat when she's to fat for you.
2006-06-20 01:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man, it isn't the outside that just counts. All they need is a little SOUL. She is working on it anyways. Big girls can still be pretty.
2006-06-20 01:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by Soul Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lady who can Slim down anyday (if she wants)
2006-06-20 01:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by Sunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is this even an issue? If you like her, go for her. It's not about who your "homies" like. They don't have to be with her. Grow up if you want a real relationship!!!!
2006-06-20 01:05:41 · answer #10 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋