how does someone who loves you so much, break your heart and then leave..........i know about if you love something, set it free...but this guy loved me, he hurt my feelings and i know he was hurting too. but why dint he say it, will he ever come back to me? were currently in 2 different states.
2006-06-20 00:39:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am in the same boat.i finally decided to move on and leave him.there are no answers to why and how.try anything that makes u feel good.distract yourself.get over with it.dont wait for him to come back.easier said than done.i know how hard it is.nobody dies of a heartbreak.u will survive this.try and stay happy.
2006-06-20 01:02:36 · answer #1 · answered by S S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I no its hard huni, but myabe it was for the best. You said yourself that both of you were hurting, so maybe letting go off each other is what you both need. It's the hardest thing ever to give up somebody you love, but something positive will come out of it. Maybe you both just need a break from each other, meet and explore new people. If the love is heart felt and real, then he'll come back to you.
2006-06-20 07:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by Claire L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard as it may be, face facts. He left you. He's gone to a different state. End of story. I wouldn't advise you to get in touch with him or to ask for a reason why. Leave him well alone, and do you know what, he'll be curious why you haven't contacted him and he'll be in touch. Then you can say in your most happiest voice.
Piss off you fool.
2006-06-20 07:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are like bees, they flit from one flower to another thinking each flower is really special. Girls are more loyal, that's why they are easier hurt. Read the Venus and Mars books by John Gray.
2006-06-20 07:54:57 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isnt always easy to maintain a close tie with someone far away. the other problem with some people when they are hurt they burn their bridge and never come back. for reason of pride or anger or embarrassment they will not. it depends on the person and how they react to the situation. sorry you had your heart broken :(
2006-06-20 07:51:05 · answer #5 · answered by smiths j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy....he may well love you but the fact is he just doesn't love you enough.
Be strong, don't waste time being down about it. He's done you a favour....now you have time to focus on yourself and your future....may people in bad relationships would kill to be in your situation of freedom and opportunity.
Remember, you choose what the events that happen to you mean to you.
Good luck!
2006-06-20 07:48:43 · answer #6 · answered by Zane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he felt himself getting too close and got scared it would be a commitment issue. If he felt you would be better off without him then he let you go for your own benefit (as he perveived it) maybe you wanted different things in the future and he realised that as much as he loves you he cant give up his own dreams or let you give up on yours
2006-06-20 07:45:03 · answer #7 · answered by dave w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress of a relationship can cause fear. He didn't know what to say,
he didn't know how to say it. That still doesn't give him the excuse to up and leave. One day he might, If he loves you he regrets his decision. If more counseling is needed contact me.
2006-06-20 07:47:34 · answer #8 · answered by Soul Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely it wont work being in two different states but from personal experience, if both of you are willing to try then maybe......
2006-06-20 07:44:56 · answer #9 · answered by anw110784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and talk to him... Sounds like there are other issues that have set him on this course...
2006-06-20 07:46:09 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋