What should i say if she says something to me?
2006-06-20 00:35:20 · 40 answers · asked by Kymmy!XxX 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
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2006-06-20 00:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel mature enough to be having sex, then this is what goes with it.
If she asks, tell her the truth. You and her son are having sex, and you feel that you may be pregnant, or at least it is a possiblity. What else is there to say? Perhpas you'd like "beat her to the punch" and let her know that you are aware that she read the text message. That you would like to openly discuss what concerns she has for the two of you.
2006-06-20 00:41:06 · answer #2 · answered by Fitchurg Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do suggest that you and he sit down and be very honest with her if indeed she actually read it. When you start lieing about it, it will be harder to get support if it is the true and you are pregnant.
Well, not knowing what age you are and how old your boyfriend is makes a big difference. If you are both under the age of 18 it will make things very difficult.
If you are both over the age of 18, then just down with her when you find out for sure if you are and hopefully she will supportive.
good luck.
2006-06-20 00:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by Gabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What other choice do you have but to tell her the truth straight out. She already knows that the text message exists and to make an excuse that is lame makes it seem even more believeable that you sent it. So....... why not own up to the message. If your grown enough to send the message and the events leading to the message, then your grown enough to accept responsibility. If your going to act as an adult the you must behave as one.
2006-06-20 00:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by blueangel_bo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing that came to my mind was,this girl is gonna have problems with this mother,why do I say that,well she sounds like she looks at things of her sons that is not any of her business. My advice to you is own up to it but tell her in a firm but nice way that if you are pregnant that first you and your boyfriend will find the right answers and will ask for her advice if you want it. Good Luck to you and try your best to keep a relationship with her but let it be based on its his mom, let her know what you want her to know.
2006-06-20 01:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by mollyzowiepink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say that you were just sharing this (very personal) information with your boyfriend, and that you don't think it is anything to be worried about, however you did not expect anyone but him to be reading the message.
If she persists, ask if she would like to know when, where and in what position you have sex with her son, and maybe she will take the hint and butt out of your private life.
2006-06-20 00:45:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
something that personal should not of been texted. Where is your pride! You are too young for stuff like that but that is who you are now. This certainly changes the way his mom looks at you.
Be honest with her if she asks. I am sure she wanted to see her son married before he jumped in the sack with unprotected sex. You are gambling with a lot more than pregnancy when you do that, like disease! grow up and good luck!
2006-06-20 00:45:32 · answer #7 · answered by dutchfam7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, taking into account that the message was a private message for your boyfriend it would be very chicky if she tells you something about it... but if she does, I would just tell her the truth and tell her she should not be checking other people's messages (do it nicely though... she might be your mother in law one day!!!)
2006-06-20 02:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by Vanessa A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're way tooooooo young to be having a relationship. The message was obviously meant for your boyfriend's eyes only so how come his mother got a look in?
If she asks you, be honest with her, because if you are pregnant it is best to have her on your side.
2006-06-20 00:38:47 · answer #9 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth but let her know that the txt was meant only for ur bf
2006-06-20 00:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by Nowhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She won't, but if she does then just say that it was a set up and your plan worked because you have proved that she is reading his private messages and then give her a lecture on rudeness and personal privacy.
2006-06-20 00:41:43 · answer #11 · answered by Tommy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋