the gal whom i loved from past 7 yrs.... she said even though she was in love with me she feared of her parents and didn't come out with me and later i found after 6 yrs she was flirting with her collegemate and that one broke off , after that she came to me and said she is in love with me .... should i love her & marry her... is it justifiable??
2006-06-20 00:22:18 · 20 answers · asked by sheeru_ksa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Remember this song.........
Jo Vaadaa Kiyaa Vo Nibhaanaa Pa.Degaa
Roke Zamaanaa Chaahe Roke Khudaaii Tumako Aanaa Pa.Degaa
Jo Vaadaa...
Tarasatii Nigaaho.N Ne Aavaaz Dii Hai
Muhabbat Kii Raaho.N Ne Aavaaz Dii Hai
Jaan\-E\-Hayaa, Jaan\-E\-Adaa Chho.Do Tarasaanaa Tumako Aanaa Pa.Degaa
Jo Vaadaa...
Ye Maanaa Hame.N Jaa.N Se Jaanaa Pa.Degaa
Par Ye Samajh Lo Tumane Jab Bhii Pukaaraa Hamako Aanaa Pa.Degaa
Jo Vaadaa...
Ham Apanii Vafaa Pe Naa Ilazaam Le.Nge
Tumhe.N Dil Diyaa Hai Tumhe Jaa.N Bhii De.Nge
Jab Ishq Kaa Saudaa Kiyaa Phir Kyaa Ghabaraanaa Tumako Aanaa Pa.Degaa
Jo Vaadaa...
Chamakate Hai.N Jab Tak Ye Chaa.Nd Aur Taare
Na Tuute.Nge Ab Ehad\-O\-Paimaa.N Hamaare
Ik Duusaraa Jab De Sadaa Hoke Diivaanaa Hamako Aanaa Pa.Degaa
Jo Vaadaa...
Hamaarii Kahaanii Tumhaaraa Fasaanaa
Hameshaa Hameshaa Kahegaa Zamaanaa
Kaise Bhalaa Kaisii Sazaa Dede Zamaanaa Hamako Aanaa Pa.Degaa
Jo Vaadaa...
Sabhii Ehal\-E\-Duniyaa Ye Kahatii Hai Hamase
Ki Aataa Nahii.N Koii Mu.Dake Adam Se
Aaj Zaraa Shaan\-E\-Vafaa Dekhe Zamaanaa Tumako Aanaa Pa.Degaa
Jo Vaadaa...
Bahut Jii Lagaayaa Zamaane Se Hamane
Bahut Vaqt Kaataa Bahaane Se Hamane
Jab Se Huaa Tumase Judaa Ye Dil Na Maanaa Tumako Aanaa Pa.Degaa
Jo Vaadaa Kiyaa
Ham Aate Rahe Hai.N Ham Aate Rahe.Nge
Muhabbat Kii Rasame.N Nibhaate Rahe.Nge
Jaan\-E\-Vafaa Tum Do Sadaa Fir Kyaa Thikaanaa Hamako,
Aanaa Pa.Degaa
Jo Vaadaa...
She is not for u.... no don't marry
2006-06-24 05:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by Great Guy 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Even though she was flirting with her collegemate truthfully she may have been trying to make you jealous, and yes you should love her and marry her if that is what you want to do. If you both are happy with each other than go for it. The past is in the past it's go to move into the future with a new attitude and new wife.
2006-06-20 07:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by mandi88_bailey05_ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good question. but the answer is simple;
How long did she "love" this other guy? How long has she "loved" you? Do you really love her? If she has "loved" you longer, and if you love her, then you should try again. Maybe even postpone the marriage if necessary, or you could just continue on and give her a second chance if she and you are really in love. Wouldn't you want a second chance?
Remember: We humans make mistakes. But those mistakes are always forgivable, if not fixable ones.
2006-06-20 09:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by homebouy69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huney, you're the rebound guy and right now, she is unsure of want she really wants. She was with this other guy, while claiming to love you then right? So no dear, I don't think you should, you now, have got to move on, because if you do get married there would be problems....Good luck
2006-06-20 11:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by sue_tt2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Either you are a rebound for her
OR
2. She is truly sorry for her actions and realizes now that it is you that she loves.
Advice: If your feelings are still strong for her....give it some time. Don't marry her right away. Don't let your guard down. She deceived you before, therefore you need to make sure her intentions for you are real this time. If she truly loves you...she will wait until YOU are ready. Trust and Honesty are very important, therefore you need to be sure. Be cautious...love is blind.
2006-06-20 09:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by Pammie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a bond, one that should not be taken with a grain of salt. Make sure of her feelings too, but really make sure of yours. it could be a rebound because she has suddnley found out that this other guy wasnt suitable enough. Give it time before you ask. dont rush this. date a little longer and then see what your heart tells you.
2006-06-20 08:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by Tracey E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking the questions then the obvious answer is no. When you find the woman you want to marry you will know that you want to spend the rest of your life with her and you will not have to ask.
2006-06-20 10:52:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jason P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love her? Is she the one? You should know in your heart and if you have any doubt, any whatsoever, then she's not the one for you. Can you imagine yourself happy with her, even 10, twenty years down the line? Don't marry her if you don't know for sure.
2006-06-20 08:52:37 · answer #8 · answered by @~>--T--<~@ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love this girl enough to want to marry her? Has she shown you any proof that she loves you. Go with your heart in your decision as love and marriage is not something to be taken lightly. Good luck my friend.
2006-06-20 07:30:09 · answer #9 · answered by AussiePete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Not unless you can live with the fact for the rest of your life that you were her second choice. How long do you think she'll stick around if she thinks something better comes along?
2006-06-20 07:30:02 · answer #10 · answered by Cyndie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋