i work as designer but i had these fellow of co-workers who are like that.
i only need a Christian advice please . thanks
2006-06-19 23:33:34 · 14 answers · asked by Philadelphia 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
i don't judge , they tell it, from their own mouths.
2006-06-19 23:39:46 · update #1
Why should their life choices affect you? If you don't like what they do, just don't follow their lead!
2006-06-19 23:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by mrscmmckim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not involved in the adultery part then I think you'd better stick with your job at least until something better comes along. Chances are, on the new job if you took one, there'd be some adulters there too. Work out your own Salvation with fear and trembling. We're in the world but not of the world. Just because you have to rub shoulders with them each day, does not mean that you are a partaker of their evil deeds. No reason to feel guilty about it. Stick with God and set an example before them, and they will be the condemned ones, not you. :-)
2006-06-20 06:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by revtraveler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doctrines of Jesus never insist anybody to quit from the froward people they met with , but to quit himself from the evil ways he found in others life. Even Jesus Christ the sanctified and sent from the Father has mingled with the people who are living in an erroneous way but amidst such situation he has perfectly done the will of the Father. So you need not to resign from work, but ask God to give you grace that he may make u a living witness for Jesus in the coming days that other may see Jesus through your good conduct.
2006-06-20 06:48:51 · answer #3 · answered by davchrame 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you're going to leave the world because your fellow humans are sinners. Did Jesus refuse to associate with adulterers and other sinners? From a Christian perspective, you have to ask yourself that question: What would Jesus do?
2006-06-20 06:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by Muddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does it effect you from doing your job? or is it just agents your beliefs? because if it is and you cant perform your duties because
your judging others-quit. i think what you must keep in mind is that this is your belief right or wrong just as much as it is your co workers right not to follow his or her vows.
maybe try just making other friends at work and let it be know that
you are against cheating so they wont want to talk about it in front of you. and judging is what you did with the story after it came out of their mouths.
2006-06-20 06:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by ecatrich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to understand that you will always be surrounded by people with low morals. You will always be surrounded by people who completely immoral. If you are not in any involved with these "adultering" co-workers, I would recommend you just keep your distance from them, and hold on to your job. Especially if you have a good job. If, however, you are feeling "tainted" by the atmosphere at your job, it may be time to move on.
2006-06-20 06:41:57 · answer #6 · answered by Treblacram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not directly involved with the illicit affairs, but since you already are aware of it, you are indirectly involved in it. Legally, it may be categorized under accessories to the crime or connievance to the crime. As a believer, you ought to stop them if possible, if not, admonition suffice. As relating to the case in Jesus with the adulteress,why did no one stoned her when Jesus gave the signal to do so.? Because they were all involved in it, indirectly , by being tolerant with what they have been witnessing before the courtship, the affiar, and the acts.
To resign or not? it's your decision, seek other place of work as soon as possible.
2006-06-20 06:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even consider this? First you should not judge. Second, jobs are hard to find. Third, here's an opportunity for you set a Christian example of forgiveness and non judgmenatlism. Ignore their sin. Let God sort it out. Not your job.
2006-06-20 06:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by sugarbabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no, you stay strong in your beliefs and let them do what they want,, they will meet their maker one day and hell mend them..
apart from a convent my friend you would be changing jobs every day if you left because of someones adultress behaviour,,
tell them to keep there thought and conversations regarding these issues to themselves
you work hard hard and enjoy your labour of love before gouing home to your loved ones
you could also try praying for them god bless
2006-06-20 06:39:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you leave you take away the only Christian influence they may have. Stay and be a witness to your faith.
2006-06-20 07:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by sparkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, jesus befriended these people, the best thing you can do is be a good example to them, i honestly believe that even the most heathen person respects what you believe and stand for despite how they act
2006-06-20 06:38:59 · answer #11 · answered by stino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋