sometimes i love this boy, sometimes i don't. sometimes i saw him so handsome, sometimes i saw him as the ugliest. sometimes i just want to be his gf, sometimes i just want to be his friend. Do i love him or i don't?
2006-06-19 23:20:15 · 17 answers · asked by me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's dificult for others to say cz ur in ur teenage years.. it hapens a lot.. just sit n think a while n c wat ur heart really tells u.. it'll take sometime for u to realiz.. n find out wa u want to know.. but trust me.. u'l be able to find out the truth.. just don't come to hasty conclusions... gud luck..
2006-06-19 23:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by sungi_rulez 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't see any reason why your feelings for and about him change so often if you love him at all. Perhaps, you are at a confused stage about many things in life including the way you look at him. You may just be interested in him and nothing else because if you love him, you will always see him as the most handsome man in your life and you will want to be his girlfriend or wife all your life.
Don't mistake your liking him for loving him. It may not be love that you feel for him.
Another reason for your being like that is for you alone to analyze and answer. Do you think you have split personality? If you have that kind of personality, when you are in your very own self, you love him, if you are in your other self, you don't love him. Change yourself first and once you get to escape from your split personality and be whole again, search your heart if you do love him. Your answer will lead the way to your finding reality. Good luck.
2006-06-19 23:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey diva... listen carefully.... this devil and angel voices are just because may be you are too much attracted towards that guy BUT when you think of getitng close to him, some of the factors come in your way.... which can be....
1. you think you can get a better guy than him.
2. your family values restricts you from going close to him.
3. you think its just lust and you restrict yourself.
4. he is a bit moody and you see him in different moods...
5. he sometimes give you importance but sometime just NOTHING...
well all these reasons are may be may not be situations...
so i suggest you to do this...
make two columns....... one for his qualities and other for his disqualities... keep on filling those columns...
1. if the qualities are way ahead of the demerits.... you definitely love that person and cant just find flaw in him...
2. if demerits are more, then it is not love....
3. if both are almost same... then it is like a 50 50 conditions... go for friendship first and until the point one is satisfied, dont think that you are in love with that person...
ciao
2006-06-19 23:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by mitr_hamesha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww
this is kinda a hard situation, me 2 have bin through this and im sure alot others have.
It sound like it could be lust and not love but then again only u will no. Maybe if u give it abit more time and see how u feel den, if u still feel the same way den maybe it is love so jus folow ur heart...
2006-06-19 23:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by Petal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey u do one thing for few days avoid him,dont go with him out,no phone chat nothing for few days just try to concentrate on other things in life .if than also u r not able to forget him or not able to stop thinking abt him than its love other wise its only attraction .hope u will found this helpful ...........
2006-06-19 23:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
her is the truth to the great question you ask!
great gandolf says, "you like your husband for his qualities, but you love him for his flaws."
the great gandolf has spoken
if you don't feel this way. it is not love you have. it is an emptiness you are substituting within yourself until you or the right person can bring it out and serve its real purpose.
2006-06-19 23:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by booboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu are very much attracted to him but arnt sure if u really want him in your life as a boy friend....
2006-06-19 23:31:21 · answer #7 · answered by gentle_cute_man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u hav a crush on him....i dnt think u love him..
spend quality time with some other guy& c if u miss ''this boy''---if u mis him then u can b sure that u love him!!
2006-06-19 23:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by dincpurple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit alone a think about him.
I think u fall in love with her.
2006-06-19 23:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by Jatin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flip a coin.
2006-06-19 23:21:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋