say someone has a problem on choosing between three women who are totally different:
woman No. 1: Is my ex we seperated amicably we were both going through hard times carreers and intefering friends we stayed friends over the years
woman No. 2: was chasing after her for months and she started taking motice briefly dated her [nothing really happened] love her, she is intelligent, capable and has this mysterious appeal which I cannot figure out yet
woman No. 3: this one had a crush on me, slightly older apparently I was not noticing her approaches spent the weekend at a friends house for a funeral she is beautiful, smart and am attracted to her as well,
I do not want to lead any of them on or break hearts I value their friendship so much, it has been three years since I started the dating scene.Help!!!
2006-06-19 23:07:13 · 20 answers · asked by samydan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make up your own mind. Don't ask people or advice, because we are going to be wrong. Go with your heart. Try to be happy. Life is too short to not be happy.
2006-06-19 23:16:54 · answer #1 · answered by spudric13 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay stay friends with all three don't lead them on. What lady do you think about the most? Who do you wake up thinking about or want to tell something little to? If you can't answer try dating and meeting other ladies for a short time. Do you know what you want in a woman? In a relationship? take some time in the dating world to get to know yourself and what your looking for a little better before you tread on friendship ground. If you go there it's hard to back out and maintain the friendship. You are really the only one that can answer this one ;l)
2006-06-19 23:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman number 3 is simply, a physical attraction, at this point.
Woman number 2 has a mysterious appeal, which at this point, is probably also a physical attraction. However, woman number 1 is already your friend, through hard times, careers and interfering friends. Your ex would not still be friends with you unless she was still interested in you over the years. Why don't you put physical attractions aside and concentrate on building a relationship with someone you can trust who cares about you consistently? It sounds like you need to give your ex girlfriend a new level of committment if she is still talking to you after all of three years of separation. She is actually, the only one of these women with whom you seem to have true friendship.
2006-06-19 23:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...they all sound good!
I guess No1 is probably the safest bet in that you know her so well...better the devil you know as they say! But you do have to think back to why didn't it work before and whether its worth going back to just for the sake of it. If you still love her and want to work at it again then this must be your first choice but don't just go back to her because its comfortable. Never settle for 2nd best.
It seems you are really into No2 so if you are certain there is no future with your ex then this is one to pursue.
No 3 is the wildcard...in the fact that you never noticed her before but now she is featuring in your life. This doesn't mean she is not for you but she sounds like she further down the pecking order. It might turn out that No 2 is not that good for you and she is the one.
So to wrap it up... I would say be adventurous and go for 2 unless you still have strong feelings & love for No.1.
Hope that helps.
2006-06-19 23:16:44 · answer #4 · answered by Keira 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it IS the lady, or, the Tiger, right?
I will always try to choose wisely, and prefer the third lady, if I can match wits with her. The sex will be experienced, and the other 23hours and 49 minutes will be spent in getting in the mood for it!
I share life with a bright mind, and an able companion.
Looks fade. Give me a relaxed and intelligent, self-confident, woman. Gads, the grey streak, or a wrinkle, certainly add character! They are ALL so great!
Wrap them up, I'll take them all!
2006-06-19 23:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off why do you have to choose??? Can you not sit each of them down and say,hey I need to date around,go it alone for awhile?Why make a choice? Do you have to be in a relationship?Do you like your freedom? These are questions you should ask yourself. My point is don't rush into a committment.Your ex...well you should just not go there again..if you're friends because you're not together anymore that might be the best.
2006-06-19 23:15:30 · answer #6 · answered by curiousbutshy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No 3. It seems like 1 and 2 have not worked out because you would still be with one of them. So give 3 a shot...Could be the best time of your life.
2006-06-19 23:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by Zach Powers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - 3 ....
Reasons ...
She is older than you so expected to be a lot mature and she is inclined to you as well ....so she will care for u ...
as No-1 & you already seperated and are friends so ur status will remain the same and atleast she would be ur friend as she ...
No2 is just a illusion and nothing really exists and she seems to be just another woman ...
p.s. hope u will get the right one ....
2006-06-19 23:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by pushpak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ist one is out of your life and you can only remain "NORMAL" friends over time
2nd one is best for you because she has this Surprise and intelligence together which maintains a relationship.so has the BEST prospect
3rd one wont be their for long but tell her your position and she will understand if she doesn.t just have occasional meets with her because Crysh of a old person is not nice thing to have by yous side.
2006-06-19 23:14:56 · answer #9 · answered by yash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Close your eyes and visualise your life with each one of them. One by one. Who do you think will be most caring, most understanding. Who will accept you the way you are and you can accept without trying to change her. Who will be with you, support you in thick and thin.
Once you are through with your visualization, I am sure you will be able to make a decsion, that with whom you wish to spend rest of your life.
2006-06-19 23:17:02 · answer #10 · answered by vivek_ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋