2006-06-19 21:58:48 · 29 answers · asked by TAz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...if it's an issue, why marry him? Or do what my friend did...fake it. Plan the "big day" around the time you're getting your period...She's still married to him, by the way, 20 years later. It's not really what I'd do. But that was my advice to her then...and it worked.
2006-06-19 22:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by magnamamma 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless he knows alot about the female anatomy he won't.
However, going into a marriage with lies is not a good idea. If you tell him your a virgin then he finds out later in life you weren't he may think there are more things your hiding from him.
Your best bet would be to ask him how he feels about premarital sex. If he frowns on it then explain that you thought your last lover was going to be your future husband.
However, anything in your last should not matter if he loves you. More than likely he is not a virgin either.
Besides that it is almost impossible for anyone remain a virgin until marriage these days. Sex is so widely publicised that it inspires teens to try try it.
2006-06-19 22:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by lovingfeathers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.He won't care. If he's any kind of a good man, your virginity, ~vel~non~ [Latin for "or not' will not matter.
He's wanked off. No man is a virgin, ever. Why should a woman try to be that?
There is only that blessed sacrament, called the "First time".-- when two become One.
That's all to care about,
and there's nothing better on earth or heaven.
--with another person]
2006-06-19 22:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by DinDjinn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't start a life together with a lie, an a omission of the truth is a lie. If you already told him you are a virgin, then don't add another lie, be honest, lots of tears, but be honest.
good luck
2006-06-19 22:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by GERRY D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHo knows now, if your past will ever haunt you in any way. You can choose to try to hide it - maybe it will work, maybe not, but keeping secrets is generally not the best foundation for a marriage. Consider Honesty now, as an alternate policy.
2006-06-19 22:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely not, unless you tell him.
And you should tell him. Especially if ANYONE IN THE WHOLE WORLD KNOWS ABOUT IT.
You do not want to live your life worrying if anyone will spill this secret. You do not want to be blackmailed by someone later on down the road.
You want to have your marriage be one of honesty and trust. If you don't tell him and he finds out and loses trust in you...you may never gain it back.
2006-06-19 22:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by Raynanne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES BECAUSE YOU SHOULD TELL HIM , HE SHOULD KNOW THAT INFORMATION ABOUT YOU. TELL ME THIS HOW MANY WOMAN DO YOU WANT YOUR HUSBAND TO BE WITH BEFORE HE MARRIES YOU? TELL HIM BECAUSE THEN YOU ARE A LIAR AND THE RELATIONSHIP WILL FAIL BECAUSE ITS BASED OFF DECEPTION. SAYING NOTHING WHEN YOU KNOW HE DESERVES THE TRUTH ABOUT HIS FUTURE WIFE IS THE SAME AS TELLING A LIE.
2006-06-19 22:02:49 · answer #7 · answered by Justin D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably will know,but this is not a problem if he really love u from the bottom of the heart.
2006-06-19 22:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by hAPPY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not. it depends really.
if the whole world knows about it. tell it to your future husband-- but if it's a super secret and he's not asking, then don't tell.
2006-06-19 22:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by cyberjake2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, he'll find out...you cant live a lie forever...well you could, but it wouldn't be a life worth living. Why would you want to share your life with someone if you can't be honest with them?
2006-06-19 22:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by Prince J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋