well me and my gf have been together for a while but for the past week..she hasnt been expressing or talking to me liek the ways he used to...it looks as though she is bored or is interested in someone else. she spent 1 day with ehr best friends who made my gf compare me and her ex! now im worried that her ex won the comparuson. my gf told me that she sees a future wiht me but tis messed up. she told e to forget all the promises she made to me but she still says that she love sme and im here everything and that she cant live without me and she cant see a future without me in it. just today i told her im the only that can make all ur dreasm come true and she said..well acctuly..i dont wanty to disapoint u but there is someone else that might be able too. i need ot find out does she still love me or does she want to dump me but just cant find the rihgt way to do so..also how can i prove to her that i love her..and what exactly is REAL LOVE..
2006-06-19 21:57:00 · 7 answers · asked by wateva.uwant 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depending on how long two have been together as a couple, basically if you have been together for over 6 months or more, then she might be bored. From what you are saying it seems she is seeing someone else and doesn't know how to break it to you. Best way to find out is ask her whats up and if she honestly still wants to make the relationship work, then how can you make it work...what do the both of you have to do in order to make it work?
Real love is complex, it's understanding you significant other, being able to read that person, compromising, understanding each others differences, respecting each other, loving each other whole heartedly, and vice-versa.
2006-06-19 22:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by monavyas15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have gone through something similar.
I started getting the feeling my gf liked someone else about 2 and half months ago after we were dating for like 16 months. It didnt help she was away for school.
My guess is that she is either one of two things. One similar to my gf who has feelings for someone else but also still has feelings for you and isn't 100% sure who she wants but may be willing to risk something just to find out. Or she really likes this other person and probably is trying to let you down very easily or hoping you break it off.
The one thing I wouldn't have said is that you are the only one that can make her dreams come true. IT sounds sort of conceited. She is the one that needs to decide that.
All in all, I hope things work out for you. After my gf and I broke up she slept with this guy she had feelings for but realized he was not worth it and now me and her are trying to patch things up although it is hard.
2006-06-20 01:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by Cuddles M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love
2016-03-15 11:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude. i know how you feel man. i got this girl who tells me she likes me then after that tells me we're just friends. like she's playing me or something. I want to find out if she loves me or not too, but you know what, somethings just can't be known. I think what you're having a problem with is to move on or not?
Well for me its like this well this is me. Im crazy about this girl. And well i don't think she feels the same way. but i Love her. and i would do anything for her. So yeah i would wait. if she ain't gonna pick me well i sometimes think its her loss but hey, yeah it sucks. You know but the fact is if you really love her, well i guess you'd wait for at least abit see how things pan out?
Well real love? can't be described. But well do you love her enough to wait? well this can at least be felt in some way. Close you eyes, or before you sleep and when youw ake up, who do you immediately think of? if its her, well yeah you're in love. Thats the way for me. I know it sucks and all not to get any love in return even though you devote everything to her, but well, i know how it feels. i want to cry sometimes. i hope so fervently we could have a relatioship. syas she likes me and then says we're JUST friends. Just friends that whole statemnt sucks.
Cheer up dude, love will come.
2006-06-19 22:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by izt_is 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has developed some doubts about your relationship. The fact that she did a comparison is not good news. If you don't want to lose her, recreate the spark between the two of you. Show her what she'll be missing out on in case she decides to end it. Good Luck!
2006-06-19 22:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by FairyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's already talking to another guy. She wants to break things off with you but is hoping you'll lose interest and break it off with her first. She may even have her girlfriend break it off with you for her if it's taking too long for something to happen.
You don't love her. You love the reality of having a girlfriend and now you're feeling the pressure of losing her without feeling like you deserve to lose her. It gives you the feeling inside like you're falling really fast and you're trying to grasp on to her to break your fall. Save yourself, brother. Let her go. She's already gone - you're just the last to know.
2006-06-19 22:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by David 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u and ur gf. a confused couple. dont bother too much. shes just another grl. take it easy. giv her as much importance as she gives 2 u. got it?
2006-06-19 22:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by anthonygonzalvez 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋