My mom feels i m a little selfish n my bro is very attached to her .She makes mylife miserable I have attempted suicide 3 times Please help me.
2006-06-19 21:54:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That's serious, attempting suicide, that is. You hate your mother that much? Try to talk to her about it. I don't particularly like my mom, but I do love her and have never commited suicide, so trying to talk to her about it is best.
2006-06-19 22:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by London Romance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had the same problem. My mom is much nicer to my younger step-brother, who is half-White, half-Asian. I'm full-Asian, and she treats me terribly, but she is biased for my younger brother. She has bought him a lot of things, including a brand-new dirtbike. All she did to me as a kid was scream at me, tell me I'm worthless, and throw stuff at me to scare me. She would also threaten me and say that my stepdad was going to beat me up. She treated me terribly as a kid and I had no place to hide. I hope you will be better off than I was.
...but, If your mom is simply keeping you from events, however, sometimes this is a good idea. It may seem like you're missing out if you're not allowed to do what the other kids are doing, but this isn't always the case.
Nonetheless, no mom has the right to hurt their child. My mom hurt me so much as a kid that I get so depressed, but I try to stay alive so that I can get justice someday.
When the time is right, abandon your mom and never return. Do not do so too early, though, but only when the time is right. You have to be an adult and have a good job. If you leave too early things might be worse, really. Find a happy life and send her a picture of your family later and say, "I'm happy now," and prohibit her from seeing her grandkids. That's what I'm gonna do for payback.
2006-06-19 22:07:04 · answer #2 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, so first of all you need to talk to your mom about your relationship with her. It isn't healthy if she truly does play favorites with your brother. Explain the way you feel about it and I'm sure she will be able to change/ include you more. Also I would talk to a psychiatrist- I talk to one sometimes and it really helps. They can help you with feeling depressed because they listen and offer guidance and suggestions. I even go to the psychiatrist with my parents sometimes- you should try going with your mom there so she can hear how you feel and so you can work things out. Please don't lose hope- you will be able to overcome your depression and I have hope you will be able to mend your relationship with your mother as well. Good luck.
2006-06-19 22:01:47 · answer #3 · answered by letcooplive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man don't attempt suicide or something just talk to her and she will understand aftertall she is ur mom and i know mom's r not this bad ok and don't listen to the advice given by idot Arpit or anyne else just stay calm and talk to ur mom
2006-06-19 22:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...talk to a psychologist or a professional counselor. Mom may not realize that you will be the one taking care of her when she's old...it'll be a sorry day when she realizes that she has lost her daughter due to her own stupidity. Move on, Mom's agenda isn't fair. Find good friends and accentuate the positive.
2006-06-19 22:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by magnamamma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every mother loves her all child.i also thoght same for last 3 years.bt i realise how stupid of me.i was so wrong.b'coz mother can never partial.she does'n care of u more than bro b'coz i hope she knows that u can care of urself very well.she knows abt u and ur capablities.i know she belives in u.just think if u r not lovable for her.then why she felt so many pain when u born.n why she belive in u.so love ur mumma.and also u can clearly talk vid ur mumma.
2006-06-19 22:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by shal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u out of ur damn mind attemt to sucide is totaly rediculus dear mothers always loves their childern u can do one thing do those things that ur mother likes she'll pay attention to u tell me have u got ne result when u attempt to sucide cheer up dear conquer ur weaknes ann the world will be at ur feet
REgards
Shery
2006-06-19 22:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by Shery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey sumi, why are you thinking like this,your mom also loves u lot but as u know that sumtime it happens when we see that our mom n dad loves elder one but not smaller one,n sumtime opposite of it,
o think u should talk to your mom so that she also can come to know she is doing wrong n plz ask to ur mom that why she is doing like this??? if she is not your real mom then she deliberately does this,n it will happne again & again,
1st of all try to make ur mind so strong, n dont think so much bcoz when someone ignore us like this then it happens,n i know dat u r a strong indian girl,dont try to suiside,
try to make ur personal recognization to others,
ok,,,so plzzzz himmat mat haro aur dont atke anything to ur heart,u have a good heart so many poeple will love u...ur harish
2006-06-19 22:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by harish007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the army.
2006-06-19 21:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by moulunex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom how she makes you feel. seek counseling to resolve the problem. killing your self is definitely not the answer.
2006-06-19 22:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋