Ladies......Let me ask you something...?

Question

Why is it you always hear women say "I just want a good man"....but when they find one, they screw em over?

Im not trying to imply that all women are like that. But after all the dating I have done it seems that all they are interested in is games. Personally, Im sick of it.

Answer 1

That's life. However, my daughter was 18 when she was given the facts about life. She was told not to look for looks nor money..If she found the man who treated her good and was proved to be loving to children, to grab him. She did as was suggested. They have been together ten years and have two wonderful children. God is a great part of their marriage. That was one of the rare times she seemed to listen and thank God that she did.

Answer 2

Unfortunately life is somehow sometimes a little bit too unfair to some of us. I feel your pain and I understand your frustrations. Yes there are some women who are playing games with guys and so on but give it time, stop looking for a potential candidate and who knows maybe you'll find the woman you've always been looking for.

I'm a woman and unfortunately I've also gone through what you've went through and now I just don't know because I somehow stumble over guys who are users.

Otherwise don't give up hope, maybe one day hopefully sooner you might just be lucky. Good luck and don't give up hope, we (women) are all not like that. Some of us (women)are also looking for the one but never with much luck .

Answer 3

Well, in all honesty, there are women out there who constantly want drama in their life, to keep their life as juicy as a soap opera. So even if they had a well-rounded great guy at hand, they will do something, such as test his patience, treat him horribly and take him for granted, in hopes to get a reaction out of him, making him the bad guy in the relationship, screwing him over and ending the relationship on a bad note.

Dating, is tough, but keep in mind its all about finding a person you get along with well enough to make through together for the rest of your lives...if marriage is what you are seeking that is.

Answer 4

the reason why woman probably do it is because they say they want to good men and that insists of the long peters and money and all that so they just go for that for a couple weeks until they burn u dry and then they leave u cuz then u have nuttin left...I heard the stories believe sick arseholes these days and i noe im a gurl but damn thts pathetic and thts low down trash

Answer 5

I know how you feel. It always seems the girls you want are either into the "bad boys" or say they want a good guy but then fall for a bad boy.

Hold out hope because that is what I am trying to do.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

Each girl has her own varying standard of a good man. So when you see a good man dumped by a girl maybe he's not her type of a good man.

Answer 8

they want a good man who is also a bad man overly nice gets played but if a woman doesnt accept you for just being you then obviously she nit the woman for you just keep looking for her she will be there eventually.

Answer 9

Don't know why but I guess everyone has an imagine in their head of their ideal man. so i guess if mr. whoever does not fit the bill then she dumps him.

Answer 10

i do want a good man and am still waitin 4 him. i understand your point.