2006-06-19 21:26:19 · 17 answers · asked by markaod 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think its is a bit harder cause we are more closed in waht we are.when we are young we dont care abou tbig differences between as.right?for ex.we were buddies when kids and we still are.u are a banker and i am a worker.what if we met now?would we be friends probable not!
2006-06-19 21:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by seveneight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the problem is that when we get older we meet less people in general. We socialise less, and then with people we already know.
If you want to meet women, you need to expand your social life. Join activities or groups that you are interested in where there are likely to be women as well as men. Tell you friends you want to meet women, they'll be bound to try a little matchmaking.
If you get really fed up you could try a dating agency, not necessarily to find a girlfriend but just to get into practice talking to women you don't know very well.
2006-06-19 21:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definately agree. I think sometimes that because when we get older it's difficult to meet people because of our social life. I mean, sure you meet people at the clubs and such, but you don't get to 'know' them. In the good ole days they had social events all the time where you could meet people. But not anymore.
I suppose it's also due to the fact that people are already settled in relationships as we get older, so our "prize pool" is narrowed significantly.
2006-06-19 21:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by Clueless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only men have this problem... Although, as you get older, you should be able to pull younger women looking for experience...
Maybe you are looking in the wrong place... Or you need to try new approaches... At 38, I'm still pulling anywhere from 18-50 year olds... And loving every second of it...
2006-06-19 21:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose the say's true, the longer you leave it, the harder it gets.
I'm F*:ked then, I've just split after a 9 yr relationship(4 of wich was marriage) and have a son. I wouldn't know where to start!! LOL
2006-06-19 23:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't have to be.
As we get older we develop emotional issues and baggage. When we are not aware of them, those issues themselves make it harder for us to connect with people.
Some people actually get better with time and learn to enjoy life more when it comes to social interactions. Those people learn new social skills and work through emotional baggage versus letting those issues get to the hearth of their persolan lives.
2006-06-19 21:44:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with seveneight! It does get harder i think, because we are constantly changing as people and evolving! We tend to be more pickier in our choices, and some of us tend to even shut people out! It really depends on the choices you make!
2006-06-19 21:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very much do as much as you can whilst young.
Think... most coupling off so less people around. No longers hanging out in groups of single folk so less parties and social mixing. Plus young folk hang out in closed groups and you get seen as old and not so fit.
2006-06-19 21:33:40 · answer #8 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see the same dude...
when I was in high school, I never being single even just one week. Girls seems always be arround me. But now in mid 20's...I still meet girls but it so difficult to build relationship with them
2006-06-19 21:38:28 · answer #9 · answered by mliwisku 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probly cause we all work to hard, and dont find the time to meet people
2006-06-19 21:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by TRACEY T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋