my hubby refuses any sort` of precautions
2006-06-19 21:21:54 · 16 answers · asked by may_minu 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
TELL HIM YOU WANT YOUR TUBES TIED. IF HE REFUSES, STOP HAVING SEX WITH HIM. IT'S YOUR BODY. TOUGH PREGNANCIES CAN CAUSE ALL KIDS OF PROBLEMS. WHAT HAPPENS TO YOUR CHILDREN IF YOU DIE FROM CHILDBIRTH? TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR. SEE IF YOUR HUSBAND HAS TO CONSENT TO A TUBAL.
2006-06-19 21:25:18 · answer #1 · answered by msfixit 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋
You don't have to have sex with him. You are not obligated. Its your body and if he won't use any precautions then he doesn't respect you enough. I don't know how many you have but it is your right to say "I don't want anymore." Your husband is being selfish. On a lighter note, there are many types of birth control out there. I would recommend depo-provera. I had a bad side effect with it, but everyones body is different. And it did work. You only have to worry about it every 3 months.
2006-06-19 21:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by Pyra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband that unless HE plans to carry the next child, you WILL use precautions or there will be no sex. If he refuses, he is an abusive husband and you should consider counseling, if not divorce. I know this sounds drastic, but it's a fact.
2006-06-19 22:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by olelady55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe another member of your family can talk some sense into your husband. If he insists that you put your body at risk with another pregnancy, he must not love you as much as you deserve. Talk with your doctor and a family elder. Maybe the three can agree to meet. Nothing is more valuable than to be raised by the mother who bears her children. My thoughts are with you.
2006-06-19 21:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by magnamamma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know how many you have,but it sounds
like an unpleasant situation to you. Your hubby should
realy take YOU into consideration. All the best.
Did you ask your doctor if it is ok to have more? His advice
can be usefull for future decisions.
2006-06-19 21:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MATERNAL OPTIONS
~abstinence , not reliable........ we all give in some times
~Mirena coil IUD with hormones, no periods for 5 yrs whilst in place
~Implanon implant in the arm lasts 3 yrs
~Depo Provera lasts 3 months
~Tubal ligatinon quite final and hard to reverse
YOU DONT NEED CONSENT FROM YOUR PARTNER TO DO THE MIDDLE 3 and they arent permanent if you change your mind....
2006-06-19 21:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then stop having sex with him. When he complains, tell him you don't want more children as it's very difficult on your body, and until he's willing to either use a condom or let you take the pill or get an IUD or what have you, then you're not going to have sex with him.
2006-06-20 03:08:28 · answer #7 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to seriously sit down and talk to him, maybe including your doctor. It might take someone else for him to see how serious you are. If he is trying to keep you pregnant then maybe you need to look at your relationship. Try some kind of counseling. Good luck.
2006-06-19 21:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by Katherine M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and get your tubes tied. It will be outpatient surgery and you will be back home the same day.
After having that done you won't have to worry about it anymore. Or go and get on birth control
2006-06-19 21:25:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foolish woman, you take precautions. there are many tricks. your problem is not pregnancies, your husband wants sex
2006-06-20 00:38:11 · answer #10 · answered by Shaan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the depo shot, lasts 3 months. It is your body- honor yourself.
2006-06-19 21:24:38 · answer #11 · answered by rice puddin' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋