why girls that i dont like much,fall in love with me and at the other hand girls that i like a lot dont like me much...happens to you?
2006-06-19 21:14:14 · 8 answers · asked by seveneight 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Usually this is a falacy.
As people we generaly tend to like those who also like ourselves. They might flirt, play hard to get, but it's only emphatuation if there isn't true compativility present.
The girls that you don't like are playing games to get you to like them. They are just practicing to find out what they might be doig wrong. In the long term if you weren't meant for eachoter they won't realy stay with you anyway. It is harde to keep a relationship with someone you don't feel attracted to.
The girls that you do like are either testing you to make sure you really like them before they give it all to you, or you're being insincere, keeping something from them, not liking them for the right reason. Girls get defensive when they aren't sure what your intentions are.
Learn to have confidence in yourself when you have a girl that is compatible with you. Don't get emphatuated with women under any circumstances and don't put women on a pedestool, but do be straight forward and don't feel guilty for your wants and desires as a man.
2006-06-19 21:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not every person is that Lucky to get whatever he likes. Life brings us to many compromises many times. Even if u like Mercedese and if u cant afford it wont u go for The car which u can afford easily. After all both the car will serve your need, that is to carry u comfortably wherever u wanna go.
And according to me, One should accept the person who loves him, rather than running behind the person he loves. Bcause the one whom u love doesnt care for u. And the one who loves u will never hurt u and never let u down.
2006-06-20 05:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by in_searchof_truefriends 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your standards are set too high. what about the girls that like you dont you like. are you looking for miss perfect or just to be happy? love comes in unexpected places and people so don't pass up someone who very well could be the one for you just because she isn't your DREAM girl on the outside.
2006-06-20 04:19:14 · answer #3 · answered by leslie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get use to it...Thats the way it is.. Let a gal into your heart.. She will rip it up, and stuff it back. Or maybe I have the same luck as you...
2006-06-20 04:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by mr.longshot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it did happen 2 me quite a few tyms..
those guys whom i dont like run after me while d guy i like seemed so distant...
we're all frends so it's like he gave way 4 d other guy whom he knows likes me alot.. but then i dont like that guy..
anywayz, it sucks when these things happen...
2006-06-20 04:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like them because they are not yours. Maybe once they are interested in you , you'll loose yours. You know what they say; "Best is the one you don't have!"
2006-06-20 04:30:46 · answer #6 · answered by burcy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess, people are not that lucky after all that the persons they like dont fall for them.......hm.....ironic.....
2006-06-20 04:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by khatz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really
2006-06-20 04:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by Factor X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋