There are two guys, one is an ex of 1yr&4mos, the other, an internet chance meeting who lives an hr away..?

Question

I'm 18, heading to college, but staying in town.The ex bf (Kevin) has 1 yr left of highschool, and Drew, the new guy is 16, two years left. Kevin and I are "on a break" right now, because we fight all the time, and he under appreciates me. When I told him we needed a break, he broke down in tears telling me he'd change and that I'm the only one for him. During our 2 month break (right now) I put up an ad and found Drew. We met and things went super well... he's so much more sweet to me, and we have a lot more fun. He's got a few physical things about him that bother me, but are changeable... like the kissing. But the distance bothers me. We talk every night, on the phone or online, and both of them know about each other and that I'm dating both of them right now. Kevin is really making an effort but he's just not as sweet as Drew. We're each others firsts and bestfriends- it's hard to accept him as less than a BF or picture him with anyone else. Any suggestions? :(

Did I mention I'm in love with both of them and that they both love me, yet know I'm dating them both and they both know that I'm messing around with each of them? Awkward...

Answer 1

if you can have both of best world take it..... but personally i would go for the second guy for the simple reason he is new and sounds exciting. get to know him more. but i'm sure you will be meeting more guys in college so better don't get too seriously in love with this new guy.

Answer 2

I think that once you go to college and see the scene out there, you'll rethink this whole current scenario. 16 is wayy too young for you right now and the ex is an ex for a reason. Maybe you're afraid of growing up and away -- that's normal. At times we all look to the familiar to comfort us when we reach a stage of major change or development. It's a crutch, and it's time to move on and up.

Enjoy college.