what to do when a girl said no when i proposed her..but i know she likes me..but not showing up because of family restrictions...how do i get the true answer from her..feels like living in hell...please help me out..we have been friends for 6 months and after my proposal she said "no"..and also put forth that she did'nt expect anything like that from me..but i'am damn sure she likes me still..but not showing up..not picking my call..not replying to my SMS's and even not repying my mail..wat can i do..anyone help me ...please..
2006-06-19 20:46:49 · 11 answers · asked by jerryboy_in_18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
man how are you so sure she likes you? how are you sure that it was not meant to be as she likes as a friend? u may be just assuming that she wants to be your gf or to marry you.
if she really likes you even if because of family restrictions she will just admit that "she likes you but there are problems" which is her family. she will admit that. but if she doesn't and she keeps on avoiding you, you must get the point!
2006-06-19 23:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by Xxx☆pjay☆xxX 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she likes you... does not mean she wants to marry you and spend the rest of her life with you.
Even still she MIGHT consider marrying you, but does not want to get married to ANYONE at this time of her life.
The fact that she is avoiding you, not answering your calls, not replying to your SMS or mail, should tell you that she is NOT the girl for you. You cannot MAKE her want to marry you.
You need to let it go.
Also for many people, six months is a short time and she might feel you have moved way too fast for her.
You also do not say your ages. If you two are under 25 years of age, she might feel there is still a lot of things she wants to accomplish and marriage does not fit into her plans.
So the answer to "what can you do" is to do NOTHING. STOP BOTHERING HER. She has told you "no", she does not want to get married. She told you "she did not expect anything like that from you" and is avoiding you. You need to step back... way back and leave her alone. If she changes her mind or wants to contact you... she will.
2006-06-20 03:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by Raynanne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been friends for 6 months - wow - I have many female friends that I have known for over 6 months - and I know they like me - but I don't think we are all going to get married.
Maybe NEXT time with another girl (because you probably blew it with this one), maybe you tell her you like her first then see if she lets you kiss her, go out on a date, experience mutual affection for each other then go out 1 year or 2, get to know each other - then maybe
if you are mature and can support yourself and a family and both of you are in love then maybe, just maybe you should think about marriage. Leave this girl alone for now, unless she gets back to you....if you leave her alone (she might come round, although chances are slim), best to start focusing on other things for a bit and then run into another girl - where u make sure you don't scare her off...
2006-06-20 05:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jumo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want to marry you. How can she after only being friends for 6 months? And now you are chasing after her, having put her on the spot with your proposal. Hence she has cut you off. Unfortunately,for you, her feelings are just not on the same level as yours. Have some dignity and move on.
2006-06-27 05:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Likes??? Man... You damn need LOVE... Does she love you?? I wouldn't be saying yes to someone proposal if i don't love them... LIKE is still a light feeling towards someone...You need her to love you, then u can propose to her... And 6 month is quite fast to propose someone.. I think she's shocked... that's why she said she didn't expect anything like that from u... I know what u feel, but i certainly wouldn't hope much... There's a lot of relationship that doesnt work, but eventually it will, even if its with someone else...
2006-06-20 03:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by soupp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ******* stupid of you to propose to her when you have only been FRIENDS for six months. Why haven't you asked her out or made her a girlfriend? People just don't jump into marriage after only being friends. That is totally weird.
2006-06-20 03:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She only likes you? Then why the hell you propose? You realise she would be commiting the rest of her life to you right? Damn let the woman LOVE you first
2006-06-20 03:50:30 · answer #7 · answered by dave w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if she likes u dat doenst mean she wanrs to marry u. six months is a very short time u dont even know each other.
Do yourself a favour and apologise for being so rash and ask her out instead.
If she says no then she's not interested.... learn and move on
2006-06-24 11:27:06 · answer #8 · answered by Salacity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably she likes you as a friend and does not think of going beyond that.Or as you say,she is avoiding family problems.
2006-06-20 04:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by Bob Mukonka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh.propose for marry u u mean..yeah..u should try to kiss her first buddy hehehehehe
2006-06-20 03:50:35 · answer #10 · answered by seveneight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋