I am 25 years old, 6'5, 340lbs and berfore you say oh my god what a fat pig; know that most think i am barely 250lbs am I over weight yes but realisticly not by much. Anyhow I have brown hair wich i keep in a high and tight flat top or military cut. I have green eyes with a mustash and gotee, i have been told by many I have a baby face, Yet I have a very intimadating dieminor. Now the question; Based on these facts alone, If I approached you in a bar, club store or wherever, would you be intrested in getting to know me. Is the first impression truley the make or break deal for a realationship. Has or diminishing society made us all so shallow that all of our relationships are based on looks alone and is this why the divorce rate is at an all time high and progressivly increases every day???????
2006-06-19 19:52:56 · 14 answers · asked by berad94 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
id let u approach me cause i have never gone out with someone cause of their looks. its not looks that matter its personality. ive been with a pretty boy and he was very up himself.
2006-06-28 20:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not that shallow of a women to judge anyone by there looks. I have met the QG type men the Working class man, and some good some bad. It not the look that turns me off. it,s when they open there mouth. Personality is and always will be number one in my eyes. Don't get me wrong i will look at a nice booty, in jeans, but i treat every man the same , then go from there. Yes i agree the divorce rate is very high, i believe peoples morals have changed. Its not like when out grandparents married. People are to fast to marry and even faster to leave. Maybe that's why i am not married, i have old fashioned morals in some of me. If any man said hello to me short tall fat skinny of course i would treat them all the same and give respect till they give me a reason not too. Smile , Not all women are the same. Peace.
2006-06-20 03:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by Brat-tett & Brat Pack's 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure! I agree with you, that our society is totally too caught up on the outside appearance of someone. I tell you this, if a completely hot guy by most girls standards acted like a shallow jerk, he would not be hot in my eyes anymore; and the opposite is also true. A lot of girls obvioulsy don't give you a chance beyond the first encounter, and that's a shame. There are girls out there who look deeper than the skin, and I'm happy to see a guy out does the same thing! So, where do you live :)?
2006-06-20 02:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by light4j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let you approach me....guys who look like they came out of a magazine page have a lesser chance of keeping my attention when they approach me because those kinds of guys are usually really conceited. The friendlier a guy looks the more chance he'll have with me (and most other girls), so you don't have to look like a model you just have to look friendly and confident.
but even if we were to go on the shallow side I would still let you approach me....tall, dark (hair), green eyes....c'mon what's not to like there....and...no girl wants a guy who looks like a twig that could be easily snapped anyway....
but I agree with you...society is so shallow and only goes for instant gratification (ie looks and money)
2006-06-20 03:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by cute_but_dangerous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for me i would wait to see if you aproached me, and if you did ,.how would you say hi..?.. i am a personality kinda person so if we caught eyes and you had gumpsion enough to say hi then i would be inclined to either say hi back or find a joke to crack while in line..lol..looks are important obviously ,we're only human but i think that a good out look and out going personality is what counts..yes i too can be vein and i'm sure most are.. but my hubby left me when i got huge and wanted me back when i lost weight and found someone who wanted me for me.. i look for the genuine,kind ,humorous,fun kinda man no matter what the outcome..and i am straight forward from the get go..i am a people person and i find all walks of life interesting and doesnt everyone have a story or two to tell..i would listen..? and i work in a bar so i dont judge a book by its cover so to speak..
2006-06-20 03:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by dana_hillman_16661 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships r not based on looks but nature and behaviour. if i was 2 c u in a bar, i'd surely want to know u. yeah 1st impression is the lasting impression 4 a make or break deal in relationship. looks play a crucial life marriages & nature, behaviour plays a more crucial role in one's relationship.cant v c a pic of urs first??mayb i get to know u more then.
2006-06-20 02:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by hot_angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a single straight women, but I can tell you that I would be a friend of yours if we were to meet. Check me out at www.myspace.com/meredith_mckinney. I love everyone that has a good heart. Get off of the physical...you are who you are inside and if you are upset with you appearance, work on it. But, if you are happy the way you are, show that confidence when you go out. You will be surprised the response.
2006-06-20 02:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by mnm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I weren't in a relationship, I'd probably take the time to get to know you.
I don't mean this in a shallow fashion, but out of pure curiosity, I agree with Andrea.
2006-06-20 02:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by Barely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not necesarily the fact your big, if i can look into your face and not fell threatened because you look mean like a marine and you have green eyes thats a BIG PLUS dont be too hard on yourself clean up your face a little maybe you look older than you think
2006-06-20 03:02:44 · answer #9 · answered by transplanted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to you, but your negativity would probably lead me to make a mad dash to the ladies room. Ask yourself... what type of women are you approaching? Are they ones that are imperfect or are you after a Madonna? I usually suspect people who make remarks like yours are actually mirroring what they themselves think.
2006-06-20 03:01:04 · answer #10 · answered by n_hale1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋