How do you stop liking someone that you know you can't have cuz ur not pretty enough?

Question

i really like this guy and i can't get over him i want to but i cant i don't have a chance with him for sure. I am just not pretty enough this is what i look like. Dirty blond hair green eyes 5'6 barley have a 6 pack and a jock plus with an australlian acsent

HELP ME PLEASE

Answer 1

This person isn't interest in you because .... Let's me stop you there. If he is not attractive to you, he not attractive to you. You could have every physical characteristic he wants, and he still would not be attractive to you.

Men are visual so they see everything. They see the physical, they see behavior, they see their mothers, etc. Whatever they see is what they see.

If you are attractive to someone, and he is not. You are obviously seeing the same thing differently. You can not help being attractive to someone; nor can you help not being attractive to someone either.

You are not pretty enough does not help attractiveness. It may get the initial contact, but you have better more than a pretty face.

The easiest thing I can say is to be patience and that you will meet someone who is attractive to you. But frankly, you need to clean house and take stock on who you are, what you really want, and how you are going to it. If you want to share a life, you must have one.

One last point, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Answer 2

u cant keep on judgiin ur self lik that.ve faith in ur self u neva can tell if he is look for a gal wit ur acsent or green eyes.wat u nid now is self confident if u still dont thinks so go for a make over.but wat if he liks u the way u r and thinks that u also do not lik him.i
issues lik this r complicated and most men prefer natural girls

Answer 3

If looks are the only thing he looks for in a woman, he's not worth liking. You really ought to be offended at the thought that ANY guy could decide whether to date you or not based on how you look.

Answer 4

Who says your not pretty enough? You need to work on your self confidence! Furthermore, looks are not everything so let´s not be shallow. Go up to him and ask him out!

Answer 5

if you know for sure, then move on sweetie, give your love to somone who will take it with open arms. and i gaurentee that person will fall in love with your dirty blond hair and green eyes.

but if you just guessing that u are sure, then go up to him and see if he likes you too. you never know...

P.S. you cant loose what you never had, so go for it or get over it.

Answer 6

you sound pretty to me. just ask the guy on a date. whats the worst that can happen? He says no. Big deal. there will be plenty of other guys you can like.

Answer 7

stopping to like someone is pretty diffficult. you just have to be yourself. and be proud of what you are. but if you find it very impossible for him to like you, then you'll just have to face the truth. Hurting is part of growing up. sorry. you'll find Mr. Right in God's perfect timing. believe me. Good luck!

Answer 8

well i would bleach my hair to be a true blonde...get some clothes from aeropastel and then go up to him and see if he likes you..don't stop liking him because you think ur not good enough...of coarse ur good enough!!!! i bet he's not good enough for you!

Answer 9

i have the same problem, this girl wouldnt go out with me cuz i had acne. just forget about him, you will find the man of your dreams later in life

Answer 10

If you don't change your attitude about the way you look, no one like you. You have to have more self confidence. Besides, if he doesn't like you for who are, and what you are, screw him.