I don't have the time or money to engage in a relationship. I go to a very demanding college which demands a lot of studying (past experience shows i don't do well academically when a guy is in the picture) and is very expensive and i work also. i simply can't take out the time. Also, I am not looking for a serious commitment. Just a fling for the summer. What should I do? I can only stay with a guy for three months. I don't want to break any hearts and I don't want to get attached either. Any suggestions, please help? lost & confused.
2006-06-19 18:15:19 · 9 answers · asked by funkymonkey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try checking out single bars. I am sure you will find a lot of guyz there who are interested in just a short period of time with no strings attached.
2006-06-19 18:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by ash_m_79 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I belive that you are in the right set of mind . You are being onest to yourself and about what you want .
Make shure you tell the guys you meet the way the "fling" its going to go , take it from a guy eight out of ten would understand.
About getting attached , well make shure you just go for the guys looks not his personality and you will probably have less chances of gettin a hard crush.
Hey maybe what you need its a couple of good male friends so you don't need that feeling of a relationship.
All I can say its take careof things in order of priority , first your college than your mone and abuot aserios relationship have it when you are well settle , is n't that what most men do any ways woman?
Im shure you wont have aproblem finding a man in the future , take it from a straight men we are always looking .
Just go and have some fun, just protect yourself ,body and ffeelings specially. Dont brake your hesd so much life is confussing enough.=)
2006-06-20 01:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by Rick 77 O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say no, but you should at least try going on a date or taking the time to see what the party life is like and who knows you might really find a guy you like after all .
2006-06-20 01:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by C aka baby gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh baby are you kidding me? Most guys would love to have a sweet sexy college coed that they know is going to be gone by the end of the summer... I love that idea! Love to have you for a summertime fling, party, dance, and have wild passionate monkey sex for 3 months... then say goodbye... that's a dream come true for me...
2006-06-20 01:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do one thing at time either u fall in love with some one or pay attention towards ur studies its true that if a person is in love he/she cannot do ne thing or concentrate on ne thing u have to decide urself whether u wana engage in some relation or to study i prefer u to study cuz if u lose this period it wont come back u can engage in ur slef in n realtion after ur studies or else u have control on ur slef u can do both
2006-06-20 01:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by Shery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you've completed your education then what ? You're
gonna be very educated,worldly,rich, and extremely
"LONELY" ! So the answer is yes, sooner or later you will need
someone in your life you'll see.
2006-06-20 01:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what? forget about the puppy. get a vietnamese pot-bellied pig. glues some white laces to his back and name him rawlings. I don't think this will help your problem but it wouldbe fu%$ing hilarious
2006-06-20 01:21:18 · answer #7 · answered by DrGonzo44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have already answered it. Stay single and keep up your studies
2006-06-20 01:20:44 · answer #8 · answered by late_sleeper35 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep studying! and maybe u should get a puppy!!!!!! i LOVE puppies!!!!!!!!!!!! once your out of colledge, then you can start dating.
2006-06-20 01:23:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋