I am on a border line to liking this guy and he likes me now but i would only like him if i was skinny like all the other girls and pretty. And not fat and this other crap. I mean my friends say i look good but i juss wish i could be his dream girl. The one he notices and wants to date. Please help me.
2006-06-19 18:14:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to do it for yourself not a shallow man!!
ps. Thick is beautiful
2006-06-19 18:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by jacah5 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Reduce calorie intake - Cutting 500 calories a day from your usual diet will result in about 1 pound a week of lost weight.
Aerobic Exercise - Running, biking, swimming or whatever you do that makes you sweat. If your goal is to lose weight do this for an hour or two a day.
Limit Carbohydrates - Carbohydrates are fuel for your body and when they are not used they store in your cells as fats. If you are working out daily you should skip this step.
Drink Water - 8 glasses of water is recommended for good weight-loss. It may appear at first that you gained a pound or two, but it is just your body adjusting itself to optimal water consumption. Avoid soda, even diet ones, because they are bad for your diet and rot your teeth.
Stick to those tips and you should be on your way to a hotter you in no time.
2006-06-20 01:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by soliberating 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to be "become skinny"? Seriously, if you want to be someones dream girl, be yourself and find the right guy who thinks you are the most amazing thing since sliced bread and go for it.
Skinny is not attractive. It looks gross and unhealthy. Take, for example, Lindsey lohan, Hillary duff, the Olsen twins etc.
If "he's" going to notice you it's because you are fun and cute, not because you are skinny. Take my word for it, being skinnier will not make you prettier.
Do not base your worth on something so mediocre or you will definitely regret it!
2006-06-20 01:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by The best Me there is!!! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie the problem is not your body but your self esteem. You should NEVER change yourself to please someone else! If you want to change for yourself, you should start with a visit to a nutritionist and they will talk to you about your eating habits, body image and all of that. You also need to exercise regularly. But also know that if your friends say you look fine, you probably look fine. How do you know he wants some skinny chick anyway. Even dogs like a little meat on their bones. *smile* But seriously, you need to work on yourself. His "dream girl" probably should know how beautiful she is and until you realize your own greatness, you aren't so great for anyone else.
2006-06-20 01:19:46 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dream girls to different guys are different.. and it does not sound like you know what his is.. not all guys want that anorexic little twig.. a little weight looks nice. but if you must lose weight.. do it right, by eating less, eating more healthy stuff.. watch what you drink... because tons of calories are in sodas and all that junk. then do a little bit of some exercises.. it will make you healthier and live longer probably too.
2006-06-20 01:19:20 · answer #5 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u shouldnt care if u r skinny or not. if he likes u, he likes u the way u r he shouldnt care how u look. maybe the girl of his dreams is someone like u thats y he likes u. plus maybe hes not worried about looks, just personality, or things in common. dont go crazy on one guy.
2006-06-20 01:26:52 · answer #6 · answered by InuYasHa LuVer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this answer is the one you will hear alot and your reaction will be like yeah whatever. If you want to be his dream girl you should know him not just be skinny. If your meant for each other like that then weight shouldn't matter much.
2006-06-20 01:21:30 · answer #7 · answered by J. Micro. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, you need to build that esteem up - waaaaaaaaaaaayyyyy up. You have to love yourself before you go finding someone else. Also, never change yourself for anyone but yourself. If he doesn't like you for who you are inside and out, he is not worth your time. Got it? Good.
2006-06-20 01:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Curious88 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you sure he dont like who for you you are? anyway a high protien and low fat diet. Lots of fish and chicken not fried. baked. Salads and alot of waters. you will be ok...
2006-06-20 01:18:18 · answer #9 · answered by broken o 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Exercise, eat responsibly, and take it one day at a time. No diet pills, no over night results. Slow and easy. Godd luck
2006-06-20 01:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by CuriousGeorge 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he likes u how you are why change??? he likes u for you not because your a supermodel..you should love who you are and accept your individuality and not get caught up in all the skinny bullshit out there be yourself and please dont give in to society's "IDEA OF BEAUTY"
2006-06-20 01:17:45 · answer #11 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋