can you love someone that you know has cheated on you?

Answer 1

it seems like that makes you love em more but its best to leave it alone ahead before you experience more heartaches

Answer 2

Yes, but the trust there will take time to mend. Sometimes love can be confused in there too, it may not be love that you're actually experiencing as well its the dwell of a wide array of things, from loneliness to starting all back over.
If a person has cheated on you before you have to stop and think would they do it again? Sometimes its better to end a relationship to help yourself so you dont end up with a broken heart or promises that the person will change..........

Answer 3

Just because someone cheats on you doesn't mean you have to hate them..it hurts and you're mad....the question is are you willing to forgive and forget? If not than move on, if so than...
Personally, as much as I love my husband...I would boot him to the curb with a quickness...cuz when they cheat..they don't love you...

Answer 4

Yeah but if you do that shows that your a needy and insecure person . So if you do love someone that has cheated on you get over it and find someone else before your really end up hurt.

Answer 5

Unfortunately yes. It is a bummer because you are basically allowing them to do it. But, you need to make them realize that you won't be with them if they do cheat on you. Even if you love them, back off and if they come back changed, great! But if they leave or keep doing it, there are other fish in the sea.

Answer 6

I think it depends on a lot of things. Do you or did you love them? Did they supposedly love you? Length of relationship. Marriage or just dating, kids no kids. If you think you love them enough to work it out, then try. You will regret making a harsh decision i would think. You need honesty in a relationship for it to ever work and if that person cant be honest with you it wont work. but if they are willing to admit to their dishonesty get it all out on the table and work really hard, i would think if you love them and they love you it is worth a try anyway. but alot of people think once a cheater allways a cheater. i dont totally beilive that. i think everyone makes mistakes, some worse then others and i think everyone deserves a chance to right their wrong. but it all depends on if you think you can get past it. if you live together maybe you should seperate while you work on it. you definantly dont want them to think you are just going to bow down and forget. good luck

Answer 7

You can love them... from a distance. Especially if you can't trust them I wouldn't do it. It just leads to more heartache. Eventually your pain will dull. But if you stay and they cheat again or you think they are cheating, the pain you feel now will only multiply.

Answer 8

How can anyone stake a claim on anyone forever?
How can anyone force someone else to be faithful? I hate to quote from Jesus, but he did say that whoever even thinks about adultery has already committed the sin.

If the love is great enough, yes, you can continue to love the offending party.

Answer 9

Yes you can still love that person, but you will always know that they cheated on you. So unless you can forgive them you may never be able to really trust them.

Answer 10

hey if you love someone i mean really love them nothing can take love away what you have to decide is this. can you rebuild your trust with this person? a relationship is like a life itself it goes through ups Downs and just like life hard work and plenty to battle. in which sometimes it will leave a scar. and this will only you can decide if you are able to nurse the wound

Answer 11

I guess, my friend's wife thought he cheated on her and he told her no, but she still thought that he did. But after a couple of days she said: " I don't care if you screwed somebody else, I still love you and want you!" If I was her, his *** would be history!