Its just a dumb girl crush. But the person I like is almost thirty and married and has children. I on the other hand I am only 20 and in college. If my mom or friends knew about this they would flip. Is it normal for me to like someone like this, i dont intend on ever speaking to him and Im hoping this stupid crush will end, is this normal
2006-06-19 18:03:03 · 12 answers · asked by loni_831 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is no guide or rule when u loving somebody,no right or wrong!!!just when the feeling are right,just go ahead!!!
2006-06-19 18:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by hAPPY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my boyfriend is 10 years younger than I am and so far so good. I don't know if it will last forever, but I would not know that if we were the same age, would I?
The fact that he is married, with children and a home, is the thing you should consider and if it is a crush only on your end of things. You have never spoken to this person? How in the world can you know if you like him or not?
This is just a admiration from afar and you will get over it when and admiration from up close comes along. Don't worry you are as normal as they come. Think about all the people who are overcome with sweat about rock stars!
2006-06-20 01:09:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I had a crush on my teacher, can't say which, but I was love struck. If you don't intend on speaking to him, then I'm positive the feeling will go away.
On the otherhand, I'm not normal. No one is normal. What is normal? You just have an old soul, we can't help who we like anyway. Your, friends, and family won't find out if you don't tell them. So stop worrying. Kick back, and enjoy some poker with fellow friends. Or just meet other people.
2006-06-20 01:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by got2hav_faith20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, personally don't think there's anything wrong with it. To me, it's not much of an age gap. I went thru an "older person" stage. But if you're not serious about acting on it, then you should move on to someone else and forget a crush that you're not gonna persue (especially since he's married).
2006-06-20 01:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by kewtee469 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's normal. You sometimes get crushs on people you don't want to have a crush on. Just don't act on it, and it will go away.
2006-06-20 01:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by brand_new_monkey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sounds natural for me because the difference of age between my Mom and Dad is 10 years, give or take
2006-06-20 01:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by yusdz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have no intention on talking to him then forget about it. Its the puppy eye syndrome. Obviously its a pure physical thing you are experiencing. what if, what is, and what ! So just move on. It's not worth wasting time on a hidden crush. when he has no influence to you other than a crush. bye bye.....
2006-06-20 01:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by broken o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal, as long as you don't get obsesive, I think even I have had a crush on extremely old men. Don't sweat it, your fine.
2006-06-20 01:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by ttmet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry. I like this girl and she's 39 but unmarried and she's a pretty and nice dermatologist. I'm 25 and still beginning my career.
2006-06-20 01:06:16 · answer #9 · answered by Jivan S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your crush is very normal, but please...don't go anywhere further with your feelings, he's married.
2006-06-20 01:08:55 · answer #10 · answered by botix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋