wife has cancer and is very i'll, no sexualy relationship for last 2 years............... is it ok to have a girlfriend with benifits
2006-06-19 17:07:00 · 40 answers · asked by gasfree 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your a bad man. what happen to sickness and in health part?!
2006-06-20 20:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by Xxx☆pjay☆xxX 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Rather than posting to the world at large, you might want to sit down with your wife and see what she thinks. I know that sounds odd, but I myself ran across this situation. A friend of mine who's wife was terminally ill of cancer gave him the "go ahead" to find a friend with benefits. She wanted to know that he would be OK (and their children) after she was gone. No sex for over 3 years between them, and she realized he had needs. I don't know how the conversation began, but it worked out for them.
p.s. he waited until after she passed before he began dating, because he realized that he loved her too much to put her through all that. He stuck with mastrubation instead. Said he found it less satisfying on a sexual scale, but MUCH more satisfying on the love scale.
2006-06-19 17:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by Angela H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well how would you feel if it were you and your wife was snicking out to have sex with another man while you were laying there dying!! I don't think you would like it. Just remember what you do to someone else will come back on you. You did marry her for better or worse in sickness or health. So I don't feel it would be right and I would not want my husband to do that to me. You do have other opions!
2006-06-19 17:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by brown eyes 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to be a car salesman cause that is the lowest form of life I know . This woman who dediated her life to you and is now terminal and all you can think of is your own selfish desires of weaknesss of morals. Well I don't know If your loins mean more to you than a woman who dedicated her life to you and all you can do is get on a computer to ask a question like this . Why are not you bedside with this woman comforting her in her hour of need? It,s guys like you who give us decent men a bad name
2006-06-19 17:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, because she might get better. You need to be there supporting her, not getting your little black book out. If she asks you to start dating so you can be happy, say NO. She feels like she has failed, but she hasn't. Anyway stick with your wife and God will kill the cancer cells.
2006-06-19 17:11:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have been this good for so many years dont ruin it sorry to say but she's going to die you want to be able to say i was a great husband till the end i understand how you must be feeling but you held off from sex for two years let her know what a great respectful and wonderful husband she had in her final days spiritually if that sort of thing really happens. after that hey you owe it to yourself . dont have regrets when she's gone for what you want to do if you go through it. believe me you will feel so good about yourself even though it may not seem so now that you respected her through her sickness.
2006-06-19 17:17:36 · answer #6 · answered by gia666@verizon.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a b a s t a r d and a creep how can u even think like that?! stick with u'r wife, u shouldn't even contemplate dating anyone else until she's well dead.
2006-06-19 17:11:29 · answer #7 · answered by Fall Out Boy is HOT 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a jerk if you do,the women you pledge your heart to is terminally ill and all you can think about is yourself,dirtbag.What happened to the wedding vow,forget those.
2006-06-19 17:17:30 · answer #8 · answered by movin12006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no...u should b supporting yr wife. right now is when she needs u most. if it were u dying in yr bed would u b happy if she got a "boyfriend with benifits"?
2006-06-19 17:11:53 · answer #9 · answered by babygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am Assuming your vows said "IN SICKNESS AND HEALTH TILL DEATH DO YOU PART" She is terminally ill. DO you not have a single ounce of respect for your wife.
2006-06-19 17:15:47 · answer #10 · answered by angelspooh3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh hell No your not asking that question are you ?
How would you like it if you were terminally ill and your wife was screwing around with someone else...
2006-06-19 17:11:26 · answer #11 · answered by fscape444 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋