I fell in love with a player. I want to get over him, but just can't. He likes me, but also other women. Please help me. I was crying all day, and am doing poorly in everything I do due to the fact that I am sad. He actually is a good, funny, sweet person, but he likes multiple people at once. How can I get over him? How can I tell if he's just flirting with other girls, or if he actually wants to be their boyfriend? I really need help so I can get back to my life. Thanks in advance.
2006-06-19 17:06:10 · 10 answers · asked by doweevenexist 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he makes u cry, he is no good :)
2006-06-19 17:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look. All you'll end up with out of this relationship is either a baby or an std and for sure a broken heart. Of course he likes you. You have something that he wants. Not to be mean or cruel. Just trying to give you an honest perspective. If you really care enough about yourself then you will just go ahead and leave him alone. get your crying outta the way now and spend the next week pampering yourself. Then keep your eyes peeled for a more trustworthy guy who will actually love you and give you the time and attention and respect that you deserve. Just be patient. Really great guys come to you at a point in your life when you are really ready and know what you want. With this guy all you are seeing is what you don't want. good Luck and just know that you can do soooo much better. I swear.
2006-06-19 17:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him go unless you want to continue being heartbroken. He may be a good, funny, and sweet person, but if he likes multiple partners, you may be asking for trouble. There is also the risk of sexually transmitted diseases, so it may be in your best interest to be safe rather than sorry in the long run. Rejection and loneliness are no fun to deal with but I believe you will and can find someone that is just as good, funny, and sweet that will be interested in you and who you are, and not be interested in playing around. Good luck.
2006-06-19 17:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by Oscar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get down on your knees and say a prayer of gratitude that he is out of your life. Do you know how much misery he would have caused you? He is a user and you admit that he is a player. You can do better than that. Use your head and look for someone with good morals and a decent attitude toward females. Otherwise your life will be a living hell.
2006-06-19 17:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have had this problem in the past. just tell him"if you like me then we can go out but dont be flirtin with other girls". if he goes out with you and continues to flirt then he really doesnt care that much about your feelings and he is not the right person for you. any guy who will make you cry and not apologize with in the next day is not the right person for you and you will find this out. if he is right then keep him as long as possible. if he doesnt leave him alone before you get to hurt
2006-06-19 17:13:53 · answer #5 · answered by cutiecutie918 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've seen this so many times, you are caught by the player!! I don't think he wants to be anybody's boyfriend. You will never have him the way you want him!! Don't fool yourself! But regardless of what anyone says it is too late. You are caught up-the next two years will be miserable!!! (that's how long it takes)
2006-06-19 17:13:30 · answer #6 · answered by Nuray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F*ck him off for good, he will just hurt you for the next 2 years. Go meet a nice guy.
2006-06-19 17:08:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him.......once a player, always a player.....he's no good for you...he'll just hurt you again and again
2006-06-19 17:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by xqueenyx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont mess with him. Get a man who will like you and only you. Even though i dont know you, you deserve a hole lot better than that playa
2006-06-19 17:09:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what you need to do. Boot him out of your life, who knows he may come crawling to you!! STAND UP FOR YOURSELF!!
2006-06-19 17:10:57 · answer #10 · answered by jacah5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋