goodest reason gets 10 pts.!
2006-06-19 16:33:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure. I had sex once in 45 minutes after being picked up for a 1st date. Of course, I was really nervous about the date and drank a bottle of wine before he picked me up.
We live 1 block apart in the same little town population about 450. We kept running into each other at the grocery store, in the post office and once in the hardware store. This went on for a year. He was newly divorced, and I was newly divorced. It had been a long time for both of us. I had moved in from another area a year earlier. He was hot, and I was lonely so we relaxed, he taught me how to make a wine spritzer and gave me a tour of his house. Last stop was his bedroom. He asked me to excuse him while he went to the bathroom and when he came back, I was naked. He was nervous. and so was I, but it worked out. It was the best kiss and sex I ever had, and I am 40 years old. He was kind, gentle and all the man I needed. I have never regretted it, and we are still doin it.
2006-06-19 16:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would say no but im sorry but if you are dumb enough to type "goodest reason gets 10 pts.!" then i guess you can have sex on the first date cause your retarted...
2006-06-19 16:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by brocklese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO I really don't think it would be a good idea to have sex on a first date. That only shows one thing and that is one is just wanting sex and they could be doing that all around a town! What if they had an STD or something! Be careful out there! One person has there own choice - you can or you cannot!
2006-06-19 16:42:58 · answer #3 · answered by OuTsPoKeN23* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself for your future husband. You will not regret it, and it will be more intimate and special.Treat your body as if it were the most amazing thing on earth and only your future spouse deserves to take full advantage of it because he loves you uncondtionally. Be patient. Don't let any men you date think that you're easy and up for grabs. Your body is not cheap and so is your heart.
2006-06-19 16:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by romeo4evernever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,it's not ok.If you think you know this guy very well as to have sex with him since the first date,go on,but you will maybe regret that later.If you are used to doing this,do it,but think of the consequences before.Asure to use condoms,rubbers,or something to protect you,if you both have any sense of self preservation
2006-06-19 16:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by Plume au vent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had sex on the first date, it was great. The girl was gorgeous and great to have fun with, but in the back of my mind, i was thinking, does she do this with other guys to? so i looked at her as a fun girl to date but not someone i would have a long term realationship with. so if your just looking for someone to "have fun with" it's ok, but if your looking to have a long term realationship with. Having sex on the first date might not be the right way to go. Remember first impressions count. if he thinks your easy, it might be hard for you to change his mind.
2006-06-19 16:43:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your life, and it will be a longer and happier one if you make smart decisions. Sex on a first date is not smart. You deserve someone who cares about you, your emotions, and your health. It might be fun and exciting, but these days, casual sex can kill you.
2006-06-19 16:40:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because sex is more than just a form of masturbation and if you having sex without love and commitment it is selfish and meaningless. It is just like being animals, eg two dogs.
2006-06-19 16:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by Tom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have any self-respect you won't have sex on the first date.
You will regret it later. If the guy wants sex on the first date then he doesn't respect you!
2006-06-19 16:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If two people really get along and click on the first date.Sure.But there has to really be a connection
2006-06-19 16:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋