k well i have a gf we been dating for about 2 years now and well she never been to my house. i been to her house lots of times but she metioned the outher day why she never been to myn but the prob is that i live in a 2 story house and she lives in a trailer. dont get me wrong i have nothing agints it cus my point of veiw is i love her and i dont cae were she lives i love her for who she is not wut she lives in or any thing. well then im afraid to let her come over to my house cus i dont want her to be like wow he lives in a house he must be rich and **** wich im not by the way but i dont want her to get the wrong idea about me can sum 1 help me with this wut should i do?
2006-06-19 16:24:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's your girlfriend, she's suppose to care about you, not judge whether you live in a box or a mansion. Just go ahead and invite her to your home. Make her feel welcome.
2006-06-19 16:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by romeo4evernever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen honey...
if she thinks you're rich because you live in a house then something is wrong there...
and if she likes you because she thinks you're rich...move on!
I live with my parents...and our house - from everyone's point of view - is huge. Everytime someone comes over for the first time the first thing outta their mouths is "Wow! I didn't know you were rich!" We aren't. My mom and dad busted their asses for what we have...and I tell them so.
Tell her so! Don't let her get the wrong idea.
2006-06-19 16:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love her? yet afraid of her? You must have some doubts be it about her or yourself, answer that and you might see why she's not been to your place already. If you're not comfortable I doubt she will be either. Haven't you even discussed where you live? Maybe you can start w/that to get a feel for your lady.
2006-06-19 16:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by Susen Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you've been dating for that long and you love and she loves you then it shouldn't be a problem. But if you're worried, are you sure you love her and are you sure she's the kind of girl you want to be with, (if you think coming to your house will change her mind about you)? But if you think about it, if you bring her over and she doesn't change - she's great; if she changes - then she's not for you, and you can't quit wasting time. Go for it and see what happens!
2006-06-19 16:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Houses shuoldn't really matter. Let her come over and she'll probably be impressed, yeah. But don't make a big deal out of it. If you love her and she loves you, this shouldn't even be an issue. Don't over analyze. Good luck.
2006-06-19 16:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by Melonball 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 04:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats really weird for you to be worring about that after 2 years of being with a person. of course! you should take her to your house. 2 story house, rich? NO. mansion, YES
2006-06-19 16:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by dumb_founded_01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its okay trust me the guy im with has a bigger house than me. i don't live in a trailer but it is a lot nicer! and i don't care. if she loves you she will still love you and you holding it back might make her suspicious of your love. just let her come over!
2006-06-19 16:29:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it impossible that you have been dating for 2 years and she has never seen your house. There must be more to your story....
2006-06-19 16:28:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if she wants to go to ur house, u should let her go. if she loves u for u, the way u love her for her, then i dont think she will care about where u live, just like u dont care about where she lives
2006-06-19 16:29:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt worry about it. Im sure she assumes you live in a house already. It's no big deal, I mean its not like your acting like you better than her. It's just a house.
2006-06-19 16:29:11 · answer #11 · answered by itslikedakine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋