im going on a blind date and im fat i think the guy wont like me what should i do?

Answer 1

you're probably right. There's a big stigma against being fat. You have to date in high quantity if you're fat in order to find a guy that's interested in you. There are guys out htere that like fat girls so you just have to keep trying till you find one of them.

or

lose weight.

Answer 2

First realize that there is nothing you can do to influence the way the guy feels about your size or weight but that doesn't mean you can't do something. First you need to be happy with who you are. If you don't like yourself how can you expect someone else to. Self confidence is contagious and you will usually find that people will far more like being around you when you accept yourself for who you are and be yourself. If you are not happy with yourself then you should take what measures you can to conform yourself to that person you want and desire to be but do not be unrealistic in thinking it comes easy or overnight. Good Hygiene is a big positive and don't over do the perfume but a light scent is always better than a heavy one. Accentuate your eyes but not too heavy and not too heavy on the makeup. Be confident and that is your best chance. If the guy is biased or turned off by a larger girl then there is not really anything you can do. You know the wonderful person you are and if he can't see that for a bias then that is his loss not yours.

Answer 3

always have a positive attitude about it.
hey, it's a date!
if it doesn't work out, oh well.
you never know what he's like until you meet him.
I though I'd never get a boyfriend until some guy I'd always look at in the halls at school talked to me. I was sure that he was out of my league and not my type. he looked good, though. :P
apparently, he likes the more curvaceous women.
we've been dating for about six months now, and I couldn't be happier.
I'm also a whole lot more confident in myself.
moral of the story: don't worry about it. there's someone out there that's perfect for you.
good luck!

Answer 4

I think that everyone here has said the right thing. Don't worry! You need to be yourself and stop thinking about your weight. Guys like girls that are fun to be with. If you are no fun, I don't care if you look like Heidi Klum, guys will get bored and dump you anyway. So be yourself, like yourself. Put on your favorite dress and wear some jewelry, do your hair and make up and SHINE!!! Be witty, funny and above everything else be yourself. Have fun. Tell us how your date went!!!

Answer 5

well sweety 1st off you shouldn't have to worry. either he's going to like you for you or he's not. and if your so worried about your weight then you should try to go on a diet only for you not to please anyone but to make you feel better this way you wont wonder who will say anything when you go on a blind date. just aim to impress with who you are as a person be yourself and if he doesn't like what he See's and doesn't want to get to know you for who you are then his lost not yours hell it's a blind date maybe you wont like him maybe he'll be too skinny and obnoxious so maybe you should be wondering will you like him. Good Luck on your blind date and please let us know how it goes. Have fun Hun.

Answer 6

Go for it and take your chances just don't try to make him feel responsible for your weight and make him feel guilty if he doesn't like you.

Besides he might not that perfect either. He might have dougbts and insecurities about his job or his height - you never know.

I went out with a fat girl before and she turned out to be very .
insecure, abusive and controlling. I left her because of that not because she is fat.

you can also try and loose weight and you don't have to worry about it.

Answer 7

personality goes a long way.

plus some people dig fat chicks because they have less hangups and make up in the bedroom. Sorry to sound so crass but that's my old roommate's words of wisdom.

Answer 8

Hey, being "fat" doesn't mean that your not worth being liked! Your size doesn't matter! Its all about your heart! So, if someones wants to be superficial, than there not worth your time.
I say, go on the date. Be yourself with confidence.

Answer 9

like how fat are you. Most girls think they're fat.
To me, I like chubby girls, but not overweight. I find them funny and easy to talk to. Keep the smile on!

Go dramaqueen go!

P.S. maybe ur date isn't slim either :D

Answer 10

men are a dime a dozen, if you get a bad one keep digging! Love your curves, men do! Women are too hard on themselves. If he doesn't like you for what you are all together, he isn't good enough for you!