I've known my fiance' for year and a half. He tells me I am hot. And every time he sees me he gets erection. He wanted to show me when it was down but he tells me he can't make it to go down when I am with him. I am sexualy inexperienced. Just fooled around with him. But I didn't think I can have such an impact on a guy. So am I the reason he is erect all the time? Some times I can see it sticking out. Him having an erection around me good is or bad? Sorry I am sexually inexperienced and his was the first one I ever saw or touched.
2006-06-19 16:03:12 · 11 answers · asked by cluelesschickus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably has one everyday, yes. No, it isn't always because of you. Guys can get a hardon when the wind blows.
Is it good or bad? Neither, it just is.
If his is the first one, I wouldn't suggest marrying him... try out a few more first so you don't wonder waht you are missing out on. You'll see that it isn't uncommon for a guy to 'pitch a tent' because someone says, "boobie".
2006-06-19 16:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all; how old are both of you?
Guys between the ages of 14-22 are always thinking about sex. So, although you may be attractive, it amy not be you specifically.
Next, if he is trying to pressure you into having sex with him because he says you make him this way, tell him what you want. You don't have to unless you really, really want to. If you don't feel aroused, too, then you are not ready for that level of intimacy.
And, if you are engaging in any form of sexual activity and you are not prepared to go all the way, that is unfair to him, too.
Wait until you are married; when you go on your honeymoon you will have a fabulous time. I suggest that you might do some reading to prepare yourself for that first night so you will know how to enjoy yourself and how to ask him to help you enjoy yourself and make it a special night for both of you.
2006-06-19 23:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by shoppingontherun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its constant, but he definately has the hots for you if it erect everytime he sees you.
My ex-fiance, couldn't make love to me staring at my face or he would climax, everytime. If I wanted to go for awhile the lights would have to be off or my face under the pillow.
Take it as a compliment.
2006-06-19 23:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by N_Quizitive_1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep! Go with it and when youre 26 and guys tell you they get hard at the sight of you, you'll appreciate it! When the time is right for you two, have fun! Be careful bcuz condoms do break!
2006-06-19 23:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by mrs. savealot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very possible but he wil live,put a penny in a jar for every time you do it after you married for the first year. take one out every time after the first year, at you 10 year aneversery you can still buy a soda.
2006-06-19 23:15:20 · answer #5 · answered by error file not found 404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a boyfriend like that once. It is a good thing because it shows that he finds you attractive.
2006-06-19 23:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a stupid thing 2 say 2 a loved 1.If it works,work it.
2006-06-19 23:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by Phillip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks you're hot. That's normal. Go with it. Just use protection.
2006-06-19 23:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anna M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really wish I had a boyfriend like yours. You are very lucky
2006-06-19 23:06:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure he loves you or your body?
that is fun at first, but all the time?
so is it you or your body that he loves?
2006-06-19 23:07:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋