aly's ex won't leave her alone since she's gotten a new bf, and she needs to know how to tell him nicely how to stay away. he broke up with her, and for some reason wants her back.
2006-06-19 16:00:36 · 13 answers · asked by troublemaker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ther this idiot it over
2006-06-19 16:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by idontkno 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go back to her. You don't need to be with someone who makes you feel put down and useless. If she can't be happy with the person that you are and the job that you have then you're better off without her. Every man deserves a woman who will support him and encourage him and make him look good in front of their friends. Also, your close friends and your parents know you better than most people so if they don't like her you should take that into consideration. As for the lack of confidence, spend time sharing your feelings and struggles with your friends and family and people you trust. Allow them to point out the good things in you and believe them. I know it's hard, but the best thing you can do is forget all the things that girl did or said to hurt you and believe the best of yourself.
2016-03-26 22:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously the guy realized that he had it good especially after he found out about the new guy. He's jealous and is trying to get her attention any way he can because he probably thinks it can get her to give him another chance. Have her to talk to her new bf and tell him about the ex situation. I think the three of them need to get together and lay down the law that he needs to back off. That's what I would do.
2006-06-19 16:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by Curious Georgina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just jealous, since he broke up with her and now sees her with a new bf. Sit him down and look into his eyes and tell him he should have thought about that b4 he broke up with her. You never kow what you got till it's gone.
2006-06-19 16:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by dalovely1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is bothering her tell her to file a restraining order then call the police. If he enters her home or workplace without her permission, he could be trespassing and she can call the police.
Or tell her new boyfriend to tell him to back off.
2006-06-19 16:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by shoppingontherun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him aly got a man and he lost his chance.
2006-06-19 16:06:08 · answer #6 · answered by TJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer his calls and avoid him--act really rude and cruel and he will go away. Then if that does not work--tell your parents and they can have a nice chat with him! That may end it!
2006-06-19 16:04:13 · answer #7 · answered by just julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you don't like him anymore and don't want a realtionship. He has to understand. Just be completely straight with him about your feelings. Good luck
2006-06-19 16:03:48 · answer #8 · answered by maya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if her ex boyfriend is good looking I might want him.
2006-06-19 16:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to tell him that she has another boyfriend so she can't date him and if he still persists then tell her to ignore him.
2006-06-19 16:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should just let him know that she has moved on, and is with someone else now....simple.
2006-06-19 16:03:56 · answer #11 · answered by xqueenyx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋