Why is it so difficult for an intelligent, attractive, good hearted woman to meet a man of equal quality?

Answer 1

Surly that's because such a woman doesn't exist.

Answer 2

I ask myself the same question, why is it so difficult for an intelligent, attractive, good hearted man to meet a woman of equal quality? I honestly believe one day you will find what you are looking for in a man, just as I know and believe I will too one day. All I can say, is have faith, be patient, and don't give up. There is always hope. Take care and my best wishes to you always.

Answer 3

Intelligent? Yep. Positive? Most of the time. Happy? Ditto. Monogamous? Absolutely. Honest? Yes, although I won't tell someone he looks awful in what he's wearing unless it's likely to be useful to him to know that. Kind? See prior answer. Flavor and spice? Huh? I'm a woman, not an enchilada. Etc., etc., etc... Here's the thing, dude, there are billions of people in the world, each different. Chances are you've met women who were most or all of that stuff, but you didn't get to know them that well, so we come to why you rule someone out before you know. One of the things all the women you know have in common is... you. If you truly aren't meeting women who meet your standards (and are available), then you sift through the list to see which of these things is most important (if they're all equally important, you're right, I think you're too picky). Then you look for where women like that are likely to be. Attractive and edgy? Try motorcycle clubs, tattoo parlors, performance art exhibitions. I don't know what you mean by either of those words, but surely you do. Go where women meeting those descriptions are likely to congregate. Kind, caring, considerate? Try volunteering in your community. No issues? Dude, you do realize almost every human being has some issues of some sort, right? We're working on them. That's life. If you are truly a good guy, kind, considerate, honorable, etc., then you let the women you know in on the fact that you're in the market. Even if those women are married, they know other women. If you're really a great guy, they'll be happy to give you a reference to the single women they know. It comes down to "you're too picky, you don't honestly know what you want most, and/or you aren't going where the kind of woman you want to meet is likely to be."

Answer 4

sometimes intelligence in a woman scares guys, im not sure why, but it does. men dont like feeling intimidated.

dont get me wrong, no offense to you at all, i love intelligence in a woman, it can provide for conversations higher than shoe store sales and larger words than two syllables.

Answer 5

well, you need to show em to the man
it is hard for intelligent woman to meet her man, maybe you just need to keep ur intelligent silent for a while and use it on the kids
best of luck
sry ma'am for my previous behavior.. too many kids on yahoo answers

Answer 6

So many terms in your question are relative, especially when on line. like intelligent, woman, and quality.

Answer 7

Fate

Answer 8

because unfortunately youth is wasted on the young..nobody really learns to appreciate quality until they are too old for the truly attractive both mentally ,emotionally and physically...

Answer 9

hey , i've been asking that questions so many times, the truth is that men are afraid to approach you, it's something to do with their confidence, they totally lose it when they meet such girls, they know they will never get you (men's stupidity) and they let you go...
so don't worry, there is someone out there looking for u.
pretty sure about that

Answer 10

I know! And when you do, they lack in something else you seek or live too far away. I hate saying this, but I'm in the same boat. Have a drink until the next one...