why is it so hard for a good man find some one to talk to?

Question

I have tryed evry thing I guss ladys cant belive that there are still good men out there so how can we convince them

Answer 1

Women feel the same way.

Answer 2

Sweetie, I didn't belive there were any good men left until I met my finace. An when I frist met him I though he was a ******** literally. We started talking one night and boom now Im marrying this man. Don't try so hard but don't come across as an ***, cause if his best friend would have been on line that night I'd talk to him!! Good Lucky and love is out there, just give woman a chance

Answer 3

Well, first off, I would try learning how to spell. Seriously. For me, that is a huge turn-off.

Secondly, ask the woman about herself (and no, I don't mean what she looks like). Talk to her about her day, her thoughts and ideas.
Don't talk about yourself unless she asks.

Self-centeredness is a huge turn-off.

Third, be a gentleman. Be courteous, be her white knight. Stand up for her and protect her. She is not your mother, your sex toy, she is a woman. And a woman is a very complicated person; you will have to spend a great deal of time learning who she is.

Lastly, good grooming habits are essential. A clean man wearing a starched shirt, ironed jeans and polished shoes can go a long way. We are not necessarily looking for labels or expensive jewelry or clothes but someone who looks like they take care of themselves. Another good indicator for women is how well kept their car and home are; if they are messy then I know that they are looking for a maid, not a girlfriend.

You have been advised. Take heed.

Answer 4

It's because women are so superficial. If you don't have the looks, the money or the "naughty boy" demeanor, they ignore you. Nice guys just don't have a chance. Most dating experts will tell you the same thing. If you treat the next girl you're attracted to like ****, you'll find that she'll chase you all over the place. Take my word for it and just try it. Thanks.

Answer 5

well most ladies are to busy to take the time to find that out- maybe put your goodness in your back pocket and pull it out on a third or fourth date. keep your charm on the front burning and give her compliments first- women love to feel special and then its an added bonus when you turn out to be a good guy and not just some sauve jerk :)

Answer 6

If I've read of one woman desperately looking for "a good man," I must have read of thousands. They're out there, all you need to do is find them. Don't give up and don't try to change yourself just to make yourself more "eligible."

Concentrate on becoming the best "you" you can be, and the women who can recognize a "good man" will find YOU. :))

Answer 7

Man u don't have to look cause maybe u just need to true around and open your eyes and u found what u always had..think about it..i'm good for a 13 year old..

Answer 8

Just keep being yourself. Dont over do anything. EX; buying flowers all time. The women are out there they are just not looking hard enough. good luck

Answer 9

those days are long gone all people want nowadays is apiece of *** just go out there be a player play there game until you find that girl that you belong with.****** up advice i know but its life.

Answer 10

i use to be that way to my boy kept on telling me he is different it took me about 6 months to believe him. Just hold on. My cusion who is 20 is going threw the same problem like i tell her just wait it comes when u least expect it

Answer 11

well some gurls juss dont get to know the good guyz juss until it is to late. Dat was my problem until i looked at dur and heart and not how fine they are