Pray, man. Volunteer. Join a church. Get involved. Stay busy. Do positive stuff. Find a mentor. Don't give up hope. Pray. Seek treatment and counseling. Work hard. Take each day one step at a time.
I will be praying for you and your family. You can do it!!!!!!!!!! Now, give yourself a kick in the pants and get going! There's a lot of life to live. You were put on the planet for a reason. Find it and embrace it.
2006-06-19 15:11:42
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answered by Anonymous
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do you mean that your wife had the drug problem? You need to be in though with children's services, to make sure you know exactly what the conditions are for your children to return. YOu need follow those recommendations to the letter- family counseling, individual counseling, drug testing, etc. You'll need to have the counselor and your wife and you figure out how she's going to manage to break her old habits. It's really hard for a user to come back to the same environment, and not get back into the same habits that got them in trouble to start with. If you're not involved in a church, this would be a good time to start. A church family can really be a God-send in rough times. For no reason, whatsover, should you ever allow your children to be endangered again, or you could lose your kids permanently. If need be, after all else has failed, and if your wife just can't stay clean and be a safe mom, you'll have to choose between the kids and her. LIke I said, get in touch with the agency that placed your kids in foster care, and ask them what you need to be doing. THey should appreciate your concern and love for your family. God bless you in your struggle.
2006-06-19 15:15:13
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answered by patti a 1
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Pray!! Nothing is possible by man where everything is possible though GOD. I have had some trouble with drugs myself and I know I would still be lost in that ugly world if I had not seen the light. Find a church that you feel at home in. I go to a "Church of God" I love it. Read your bible. When I first started a loved one told me to read Hebrews 10:32-35. Its a good place to start. I am still new to my faith. I am finding that the more I learn, the more I wont to learn. God wont's us to be happy, so do everything child services ask of you. And pray for your wife and share your faith with her as much as you can, send her a bible in rehab mark some of your favorite scriptures to share with her. I will pray for you and your family. God loves you. Good luck and God Bless
2006-06-19 15:43:49
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answered by Tonia D. 2
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you need to stop doing drugs anyway you can and make sure you hold a job.
you and your wife both need professional counseling.
you need to change the way you think and live.
don't hang around people who do drugs.
don't have anything to do with them.
they'll only drag you down with them.
people who do drugs hang around with people who do drugs and that's all.
2006-06-19 15:13:59
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answered by Stuie 6
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Avoid drugs.
2006-06-19 15:12:50
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answered by Frodo the space bard 4
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Do alot of praying. get yourself right with God and He'll see you through anything. Have a lot of patience and faith.
2006-06-19 15:09:08
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answered by Debbie K 2
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may god bless you and i pray that you and your wife get off the drugs and get your life straighten out and get your kids back and live for god.... make god number one in your life and god well help you.. may god be with you..
2006-06-19 15:10:51
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answered by someone who loves jesus 3
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pray,i will pray also for your family to be whole again.
2006-06-19 15:08:14
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answered by deerwoman777 6
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