People find me boring but I want to change such an image from their mind, so what changes do I need to make in myself
2006-06-19 15:01:46 · 8 answers · asked by phoenix 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The person people think are most intersting are people who take an interest in them, in what they think, feel, do. Ask about themselves, listen, respond with interest and more questions. Pople are interested in themselves, and if you are, too, they will love to be with you.
2006-06-19 15:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by mic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a great question! Reading self-help books is a good place to start. The best book I've read that has helped with social situations and relationships is The Magic of Thinking Big. There are plenty of books on the subject. When you are interestED you are interestING. Ask people questions about themselves and they will suddenly find that you are an interesting person. Everyone's favorite topic is themselves...
2006-06-19 22:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by tankgirl190 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun....nobody can tell what changes you need to make in yourself. you shouldnt change yourself based solely on other people's standards of what "interesting" is. Thats where people get into trouble. Look inside yourself and change to YOUR OWN standards. as corny as that is, its true. if you dont like something about yourself, change it. i cant suggest anything to you without really knowing you. but really, just be yourself. and if you dont think ur boring, then have a little optimism and get a little more outgoing. get out there and enjoy life. thats the best i can offer. good luck. corny, now that this is sounding like a whole carpe diem spill! lol
2006-06-19 22:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by sball124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont change for anyone, just be yourself. If you hang around with people with the same interests as you you won't seem boring at all.
Think about what you already have to offer, not what you can do to change yourself so that you can please other people.
2006-06-19 22:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by itslikedakine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't find yourself boring, you are just hanging out with the wrong people. There is something interesting about everyone.
2006-06-19 22:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by Stella Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is completely boring and if there is truly some body out there in this world for you you will find them eventually until then sit back and enjoy life be a kid.
2006-06-19 22:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by angels192002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think most people like to be with people who are interested in THEM, more than in people with clever stories. so the trick is to ask a lot of questions, particularly "why" questions which demand a more complex answer than "yes/no". you'll be surprised at how many doors will open when you appear interested in someone else's ideas & opinions.
2006-06-19 22:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try wearing popular name brand colths get som nice sneakers and get your hair done also try wearing low cut glasses.
2006-06-19 22:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by Ghetto SuperStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋