why is it that i show so much for the other person yet there responce is different and all. like i just presented a song to her and her responce was just thank u. what is up with that
2006-06-19 14:06:23 · 4 answers · asked by skippy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In order to have a loving relationship, the feelings have to be mutual. You both have to respect and love each other.
Just because all she said was "Thank you". It doesn't mean she didn't appreciate the song. She could have just been caught off guard and didn't know how to react.
2006-06-19 14:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The biggest mistake that guys make is that when the woman does not respond in the way that we want her to respond we give up and decide that she isnt worth the trouble. But it is very well worth it. You didn't get the response that you wanted but you certainly gained a position in her mind. And trust me, she has probably told all of her friends.
When dating and getting to know someone it is very important guard your heart. Many times when we like someone we tend to build up too many expectations of how we think the other person ought to feel about us. This often leads to hurt and frustration because we expect the other person to jump over the table in extreme gratification when they just simply thought it was a nice thing to do.
But rest assured that even though she didn't do backflips, she will remember. She will think about that for a long time until she decides that she was very happy and appriciative that you did that. This is your opportunity to continue to keep doing nice things for her and over time you will win her over.
2006-06-19 14:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a respect issue and maybe she has taken a few things for granted. I did that a lot in one relationship and when I tapered it off, she missed it and started to respond back. Kind of like some marriages, once they got you, they stop trying unless they fear they will loose you. You still have a chance.
2006-06-19 14:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by fortuitousoppty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
commucation. an honesty, , she proabaly has bein hurt so much in the past. ahe is a afriad to trust any one. just give her time, im sure she really injoyed what you have did, ahe just dont no how to respone to it, that was really sweet of you, an one say she will return it my something even better, good luck
2006-06-19 14:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by cris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋