would it be wrong if a 21yr old girl has a relationship with a 17yr old boy. Theyve known each other since they were in daipers, there moms are best friends and always joke about the 2 getting together. he will be 17 in 2 months and does not act like a regular 16 yr old or look like one. They have not had sex yet but they have kissed and he has done oral on her. You can tell just sitting by them they love each other but just the age thing is holding them back. Is it wrong if they take the next step?
2006-06-19 13:57:01 · 12 answers · asked by emc251978 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is ageless. If they love each other then I say good for them.... ...BUT!
The law has other ideas. He is still a minor and she is considerably older by the laws standards so they have to wait, and they should at least until he turns 18.
2006-06-19 14:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by Alpha Wolf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow I don't even know where to start on this one. I don't want to sound like your parents but I am a parent and I was 14 once also. 5 years is a big difference in age when you are in your teenage years. There are many things on a 19 year old boy/mans mind that you may not be mentally ready for. I know cause I thought I was. I don't know this young man so I don't want to judge but from experience most 19 year olds have one thing on the brain so yes he may be using you. How would your brother react? I'm sure he knows what kind of guy he is. Plus kinda sells drugs definitely a no no.Think ahead 15 years and ask yourself the same question if it was concerning your daughter or a friend. I believe you know the right thing to do or you wouldn't be asking others. I hope you make the right decision and I wish you the best of luck.
2016-03-26 22:09:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's as wrong as what I'm going through. I'm 17 (soon) and the guy i like is 24 (soon). I think they should continue to be with each other if they really like each other. Besides, if the moms say it's ok, its ok.
2006-06-19 14:04:35 · answer #3 · answered by megcapri1107 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, I would say that if they are really good friends just wait until he turns 17. Then he wouldnt be a minor, & it would look okay for them to be together.... all in all just wait.
2006-06-19 14:08:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love comes in all ages and it's not wrong on a heart level. But on a political level, it's wrong. And it's only if you two aren't ready
2006-06-19 14:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by Angelbub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the 21 year old had any respect for the 17 year old they would wait.
2006-06-19 14:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by kidmccloud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's illegal.
Been friends this long..
Wait till he's of legal age.
2006-06-19 14:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by karen-morrison7@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your in love with him the age doesn't matter.
2006-06-19 14:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by Hottie 911 open 24/7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is a minor
2006-06-19 14:00:59 · answer #9 · answered by femmenoire@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no itz not wrong as long as they are in love! age doesn't matter!!
2006-06-19 14:00:29 · answer #10 · answered by dnangel_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋