2006-06-19 13:56:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People are forever saying 'Where've all the good men (or women) gone?' You'd think there was no-one left! Well it's not true. I know finding Mr - or Mrs - Right isn't easy. But there are ways to improve your chances. In fact romance is no different to any other part of your life. It's up to you to make things happen! So, forget all the myths - most of them are wrong anyway. And take charge of your love life. It may sound unromantic - but it works!
The thing is, your perfect partner isn't just going to appear out of the blue. I know we all believe in love at first sight. We like to hear stories about how people fall in love. We adore the idea of two people's eyes meeting across a crowded room. I'm not saying it never happens. Just not very often.
More often a long lasting love starts when you meet someone who shares your interests, respect and friendship. So a strategy for meeting people like that can pay dividends. Just about everyone wants love, but few work towards making it happen. They think it's a matter of luck.
But actually, luck has only a little to do with it! Do you remember the joke about the man who prayed every week to win the lottery. But nothing happened. Then one day, in the midst of his prayers, there's a huge clap of thunder and a voice boomed: 'How can I possibly help you? First you have to buy a ticket!' Just about everyone dreams of finding a soul-mate. But few plan for success. We just hope for the best. In fact most of us put more time and effort into planning a party!
Marriages aren't made in heaven either. If they were, then the angels have made a lot of mistakes! God doesn't provide us with a mate. He gives us the ability to make choices. Mind you, many of us make rotten choices - especially when it comes to choosing a partner. So we need to learn how to make them more effectively. And not just to settle for the first likely person to happen along.
Because, there's loads of possible partners out there. Lots of people have the right characteristics - if you can only find them. So the trick's to get to know more people who match your needs. Then you can safely fall in love with any of them!
2006-06-19 14:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A perfect boyfriend would be a guy who truly cherishes you, does not discuss your private time together with anyone else, is polite and respectful, and gets along with your family. When you are together you have fun, share dreams, talk about everything, and he doesn't try to make you do anything you do not want to do whether it be ordinary things or sexual things. A perfect boyfriend would never try to control you or abuse you verbally or physically. If you've already found this guy, enjoy what you have.
2006-06-19 14:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by Decoy Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a perfect boyfriend is always in the eye of the beholder. perfect if your own definition. but my definition of the "perfect boyfriend"? well i love guys who wear glasses and have gorgeous eyes hiding underneath. an accent is a plus but they don't need it. they have to be funny, a Christian is must fer me. someone who's just who they are and won't put up a front or try to be someone else. someone real. someone to talk to. way to define, huh?
2006-06-19 14:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by tinerr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A dying breed. The best you can do is find someone who for the most part you are compatible with, makes you feel like a better person, brings out the best in you, has the same goals and values. Best friends and absolute honesty is a bonus. If you find one take a picture because it is becoming an extinct species.
2006-06-19 14:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by jodie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy has to be perfect to you, so you cant really ask us (people you dont even know) how to explain him.
But for me it would be something like sweet, kind and loving. Caring to my needs. Non self centered or conceated. Fun to be with, and gets along with your freinds. Romantic and funny. looks would be somewhere in there too, but not near the top because personality is what counts, and not their looks!
Anyway good luck with your search for the perfect boyfreind.
2006-06-19 14:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by Becky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
someone who has a thirst for adventure like me. someone who isn't afraid to allow their ties bypass and commute the international being loose to adventure new issues. someone who's conscious of a thanks to save their heart and thoughts huge open. someone who has a lot of like to grant and has a verve for existence. someone who will continuously be there for me, someone i visit communicate with about some thing and continuously sense comfortable with. i'd love a boyfriend who can make me giggle and sense captivating and alive. An artist, musician, author or all people who's creative and refreshingly creative. A romantic that surprises me and listens to my needs. someone who's reliable at speaking, honest and honest. someone who's actually themselves and not inspired by ability of different individuals. i could not p.c.. my "appropriate boyfriend" bodily because i hit upon such distinctive human beings eye-catching, even those with thoroughly opposite characteristics from one yet another. He will be taller than me although, skinny yet no longer gangly searching. captivating expressive eyes, any color yet eco-friendly is in demand. A lovable, authentic smile. Medium length hair and their personal unique type.
2016-10-14 07:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Impossible. The only perfect boyfriend is the one you keep in the drawer and have to put battery's in once in a while!
2006-06-19 14:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by firedup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically there is no 100% correct definition but usually there are qualities of the man you can consider to be "perfect". Careing, trustworthy, funny, athletic, spontaneous, etc
2006-06-19 14:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by luvaboopixie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy has been in the dog house, no perfect man exists
2006-06-19 14:00:39 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such thing!!!
If there was then he would have to be hot, great personality, loved your personality, not to clingy but enjoys being with you, sence of humor, and didn't cheat on you with another girl or guy, if he is bi.
He also has to have shaggy hair and clean teeth!!!!
2006-06-19 14:00:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋