sinse you women have asked like 50 times today, lets turn the question on you?

Question

what do women look for in a guy. like at a club or any where just courios.

Answer 1

First thing I notice: clothing. what you wear says a lot about who you are. generally I look for clean clothes, comfortable, perhaps buttoned shirt or polo. Jeans and their fit say a lot about a person. a person who wears jeans that expose their posterior and most of their boxers says "I'm a faux gangster tryin' to live tha thug lifestyle before mommy comes and picks me up. I have no ambition and fewer prospects." (I should mention that I'm in my early 20's, and this is still the impression I get about guys around my age) a guy who has slightly baggy pants, but shows no a** tells me "I'm relaxed and easy going overall. I'm not too conservative, but I'm decent". a well dressed man in slacks and a nice shirt says "I'm corporate. I make money and I'm doing well for myself". guys who tuck in their shirts and wear tight jeans with big belts say "I'm a dude, and I don't take S**t from women" (basically, it appears they have a stick shoved in their rectum... and who wants to date that?) guys in dirty or seriously ripped clothing says "I don't care about me, and I'll care less about you". and guys in all black with black hair and black painted nails scream "I want to suck your blood and make love to your corpse". Run!

The next thing is build. since I'm a bigger woman, a man with a small frame is not a good suit for me. I'll break them in half before anything good gets going! then again, huge muscles are kind of creepy, in my opinion. a medium build of medium height is sufficient. weight doesn't really bother me all that much. it's preferrable to be shorter than the guy, but I'd hate to be accused of being sizist. you just don't know who's a good guy until you look.

Next I look at what they are doing. are they flirting with everyone? not really a good choice. their attention is easily divided. are they having a good conversation? that could be interesting. are they looking around? they're interested in what's going on, and so might be easier to approach. are they approaching me? sure, I'll give you the time of day. are they being infantile? Sorry, I'm not a pedophile. I want to be with a man! there are many more situations that can make me assess things in all kinds of ways. but the number one rule: if they are with another woman, HANDS OFF! you automatically assume he is interested in her, and poaching is not cool.

The last thing to scope is the face. look at the eyes. You really can see a lot about a person in their eyes. knitted eyebrows, small, hard eyes, round, open eyes, laugh lines, etc. all the little details in that area give clues about who you are talking to. the mouth: is it tightly set? is it smiling? scowling? laughing? frowning? going up to a moody guy is not my idea of fun.

Other than that, it's a free-for-all. That's just the preliminary 2 second staredown that I give. for more permanent situations, I'd have to write a book, which I don't think many people would want to read. hope that answers your question!

Answer 2

Familyho could be right. She could be having PDD. Or as another said, she could be bipolar. Other words, this is not PMS. It is something different. Find a way for her to seek help with a psychiatrist or primary physician. As for guys making wise cracks about PMS being 30 days, or 24-7-365, it sounds as you need to evaluate your own temper before go off talking about PMS. Yes, plenty guys beech 30 days or 24-7-365, so don't give me shoot that they don't. Not all women are the same, by the way! (((HUGS)))

Answer 3

Women in general would lokk for a guy having his firm determination as far as she can judge from the physical appearance and body language of the guy, measurable with her own yard-stick only, which has no international standard.
This is applicable irrespective of the spot or place but the mental predicament of the women suiting befittingly the intention and situation/environment..

Answer 4

Obviously initial attraction is more physical when you meet a guy like nice eyes, strong arms and a nice smile But when conversation starts looks don't mean alot i find that i can be turned on by his words and be attracted to him by his actions rather then looks it is a real turn on when he shows confidence even if i wasn't physically attracted to him to begin i would be once i had realized i like his personality

Answer 5

i look for a guy who makes a good first impression (i.e. dressed nicely, well groomed, etc.) then after that, it's someone who respects me and acts like a gentleman. hm...what else? someone who will stand up for me or take my side (even against his own friends), someone who's not afraid to show he loves me in public, someone who won't embarrass me (purposely lol) or make me do anything i don't want to, and someone who just generally knows how to have fun and be themselves.

one guy i know just says the funniest things anywhere and about anything and it just cracks me up! i like that because i know that's him being himself and that's the way he is anytime anywhere and with whomever he is with. but, he knows when to stop and be serious. so a good sense of humor is great too...someone who doesn't take everything seriously but CAN when he knows he needs to.

that's just me tho...i obviously cant speak for all da ladiez. good luck!

Answer 6

For myself, the characteristics that I look for in a man include spotless manners; self-control; a sense of duty and responsibility; and, of course, a warm sense of humor. Men also need to be of comparable social standing & income to me; men are seldom comfortable with a gap that is not in their favor, if you understand what I mean.

As to appearance, beyond being well-groomed and properly dressed, who cares?

Answer 7

I don't know why you said the club, but what I look for in a guy is someone who is honest, trustworthy, has a sense of humor and somewhat attractive.

Answer 8

* A sense of confidence - but not *********
* A good sense of humor - without being a complete goofball
* Eyes that show they are interested in ME - but can tear themselves away from my anatomy when I talk.
* Clothes that show he cares about how he looks -without being too prissy clean like his momma dressed him.
* Something in common - besides our current location.

And of course - there is chemistry. It's there or it isn't. That tingly feeling when you look at a guy and think "OOoooh. I'd like to get to know him better."

Hope that helps.

~Maxie

Answer 9

If I'm in a club, then I go for looks only... because I'm only looking to have fun that night not a relationship.

Answer 10

I would say i look for a guy who respects me, who's bold and charming, shares some of my interests and who's taller than me. The more good looking the better his chances with me.