There is this guy who is 36 yrs old and this girl who is 24 . now, This guy has given her dad colonge after the second time meeting the whole family and the guy has said to the girl " ive got my eyes on u" and if they are at a gathering he makes sure no one is around so he can do body contact with her ( on her arm or shoulders or he uses both hands to shake the girl hand ) He hasnt said anything more than hi to the girl . never really asked the girl questions or anything. but always engaing in converstaion with the family and the guy said recently to the girl mother" my life was complete when I met u guys! " He says he is trying to stay single , well that is what he tells other women and women are always in his face trying to get his attention, so , he has no problem if he wanted to pick a person to get married , many are chasing him! The girl doesnt know what to do? Is this guy not ready to settle yet but when he does is he going to get with her?
2006-06-19 13:28:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way, the girl is queit but observant and he knows that! he is more talkative! and the girl dad has said to the guy" ive got to keep my eyes on you" . all I can say is dad's know!!! the dad said it in a joking way with him.
2006-06-19 13:30:23 · update #1
clay K . I agree with that . i do agree he might have some controling issues , and I like guys who are in control ! I love it! but , not extremely!
2006-06-19 13:39:16 · update #2
ps. The girl has never had a boyfriend before! no guy hasnt even asked her out yet! Ever! Sorry this question is long!!!
2006-06-19 13:43:42 · update #3
This girl should be very careful, and try not to be alone with him. I have nothing against the age gap, I am 49 and my fiance is only 25, but the way you describe it, this guy is looking to score, any and every way he can, and by sucking up to the family, it will make it look bad for her if something happens. DON'T trust him, it sounds too dangerous.
2006-06-19 13:37:44 · answer #1 · answered by aramis_b13 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well he sounds smooth as silk. He also sounds pretty obvious which is he would like to get with the 24 year old.
If he has his choice of older women, and doesn't really show much interest in them it sounds like younger, possibly naive girls are easier targets for him. Which is why I say smooth. As for the Dad warning him, which is what he did with his "I'm keeping an eye on you statement", apparently he has a lack of trust in this guy. I would too.
I've seen a similar situation where the guy was a user, knocked the girl up and disappeared. Later he ended up in prison for bilking several young girls out of money.
It would be a good idea to keep a watchful eye out.
2006-06-19 20:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it looks like a fish and it smells like a fish, it probably is a fish, and I smell something fishy. Sounds like he's into controlling/dominating someone. To come on to the family and not the girl? A gift for the dad but not her? Fishy, fishy, fishy.
2006-06-19 20:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by Clay K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a jerk and the gal should steer clear of him.
2006-06-19 21:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by robert r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋