I can't do this anymore holding myself in without yelling anything to my mom or telling her how i feel she's driving me nuts its hard to keep myself together were going to counseling and i still havent said sorry to her and i can't but her saying no to everthing to me is hard and not to yell at her...i dont know what to do i need to get out of this house can someone please help me?
2006-06-19 13:05:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
moms have a tendency to know where your buttons are and just how to push them. If mothers didnt drive you crazy, they wouldnt be doing their jobs right. lol..First off, how old are you? you have to understand that parents want what is best for their child, even if their child cannot see that. If you really think your mother is smoothering you, talk to her about it. it could be with todays world, she gets so busy and does not relize it. Sometimes youve gotta take the first step to get a better relationship with your mom. i had to do that, and it took me running away from home and being thrown into a fostor home to relize what i had at home and what i missed about my mom. talk to her. just sit down and talk to her about making time for you. you will work it out, i promise. best of luck to you.
2006-06-19 13:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by kantriella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you are already in counseling, you need to just "let it all hang out" while you at the counseling office. If you don't show your true feelings during counseling then you are just spinning your wheels and counseling could go on indefinitely and nobody is going to benefit from it.
2006-06-26 13:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by Samba Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WENT THROUGH THE SAME THING PRAY TO THE LORD TO GIVE YOU THE COURAGE TO SAY YOU'RE SORRY IF SHE DOESN'T EXCEPT IT THAT'S ON HER AS LONG AS YOU DID YOUR PART GOD FORBID SOMETHING HAPPEN'S TO HER AND YOU DIDN'T TELL HER YOU WAS SORRY THEN YOU WILL HAVE TO PAY FOR THAT SO JUST DO IT AND TALK TO HER AND LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL IF IT DOESN'T WORK AFTER YOU SIT AND TALK TO HER THEN IT'S UP TO YOU TO TAKE THE NEXT STEP ME I DON'T GO TO MY MOTHER'S HOUSE TO OFTEN CAUSE WE DON'T GET ALONG THERE'S ALWAYS AN ARGUMENT WHEN WE GET TOGETHER SO I JUST STAY AT MY OWN HOUSE AND TALK TO HER ON THE PHONE ALL THE TIME BUT I GO TO HER HOUSE EVERY NOW AND THEN DO WHAT YOU HAVE
TO DO.
2006-06-19 20:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by CHRIS T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, my mum is the same.
just ignore her, do your own stuff, try new hobbies or sports, time will heal, or might not at all, like mine and millions too.
natually, its every hard to let anyone knows you as at the end of the day, whats the point of keep explaining yourself to others? so what if yr mum one day understand, life goes on .....
2006-06-19 20:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by ignatiusnorman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is she driving you nuts? Why must you feel as though you must yell at her? Why blow up?
2006-06-19 20:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by SquizzleSquerk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her stress you out. this only makes things worse. My best suggestion is to do what you are told. As long as it does not endanger you. All children must have boundrys if they like them or not.
Mr. M.
2006-06-19 20:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you read your bible? because if you don't you should. it will help you alot. I know it is hard to get along with your parents sometimes but either reading your bible or going to church helps alot.
2006-06-19 20:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by MARVIN C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋