ok i take acting and see i didnt know anyone there the first time i went.tomorrow will be my second day. today whenever our parents were dropping us off, suddenly my mom started talking to this man and his daughter. so basically since me and his daughter both didnt know anyone, we hung out. later on, she started getting not-so-shy and SHE started laughing about every little thing. she is so loud people tend to stare. and im with her while they stare. we know each other now, and i cant just walk away because i dont know anyone else there and i dont wanna hurt her feelings. any ideas?
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2006-06-19 13:00:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Look, you need to just be up front with her and have the guts to tell her that she's being too loud. That way maybe you guys can still hang out if you like her at all. If you bring it to her attention at least she will be aware of it. Either that or just stop hanging out with her. But it's better to be honest than it is for you to just ignore her.
2006-06-19 13:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I can think is to make a joke of it. Say something about not having to project b/c she's not on stage. Or say everyone is staring - and not in the good, star of the show way. Bottom line is probably that you either have to let her be herself and either be ok with that or you have to distance yourself a little. It's not fair to try to change her but she might not know how loud she is being.
2006-06-19 20:07:08 · answer #2 · answered by JerseyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like to me that she is nervous and possibly talks loud and laughs to get attention or because she is scared and doesn't know what else to do. Simply pull her aside and talk to her about it. Explain how you feel and ask her what you can do to help. If this doesn't work, make some new friends.
2006-06-26 11:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by ND M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesnt know how loud she is, you need to let her know shhhh is quite effective...if thats not helpful just say you dont need to be so loud. I am a loud person always have been I sympathise with this girl but fortunately someone told me and I have monitored my "loudness" ever since no easy but necessary.
2006-06-26 19:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by Just Thinking 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you'd hurt her feelings. Be honest. You don't have to yell at her - just talk to her. The worse that can happen is the both of you not hanging out with each other.
2006-06-19 20:07:49 · answer #5 · answered by ninja_girl_kicking_some_ass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you would like to remain friends with her....Let here know! Just be yourself and say "Hey your being kinda loud, I like to keep my conversations private." That's what I do when my husband is drunk in public.
2006-06-19 20:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by Kayylee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her to calm down in a nice, lightly teasing voice. Eventually she'll get it.
2006-06-19 20:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by fruitnroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend is like that. Just ask her to keep her voice down. If she doesnt, get some duct tape lol.
2006-06-19 20:03:16 · answer #8 · answered by daddysangelfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! this is a tough one.Tell her how you feel.politley tell her to laugh quieter so she doesn't make everyone stare at you.
2006-06-19 20:05:24 · answer #9 · answered by michigansponge1993 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
introduce her and yourself to everyone else. She might be laughing because shes nervous. Maybe if she knows other people she might be less nervous.
2006-06-19 20:06:09 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋