well i have been flirting back and forth with this guy i work with for over a yeah and he always flirted back with me.... well one night we did hook up...yeah.. that is another steamy story but....anyway.... i saw him the next two days and everything was great... smiled and still talked and a little more flirting... then didn't hear from him sat or sun which i am cool with cuz i still have my own life to live and so does he.. back to work on monday and things went right back to where they were....we both smiled and said hi to each other and talked throughout the day and i told him my day wasn't complete without the major "flirting" thing going on with him cuz we had been doing it for over a year.... he says to me "you don't HAVE to flirt anymore".while smiling..... what does that mean???? i am confused as to what to think about that? is that a good thing or a bad thing??? Help me guys.. .what do you mean when you say that?
2006-06-19 12:46:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He thinks that now that you are having sex, there is no more need to flirt. He thinks he is going to get sex whenever he wants it now. He probably thinks he owns you now, and that you are his absolute property. Better be careful; he could be a maniac.
Sex changes a relationship. He only flirted to get you in bed; probably nothing more. And that is all he wants (sorry to have to tell you). Is this guy married? Now that he had you, you are not worth as much to him. You gave yourself to the wrong guy. Sorry. What really you should do is get all his clothing off, then give him a very sound paddling and strapping with a paddle and a strap, on his bare bum. He really deserves it, and it is the only way you will get any respect back. Good luck.
2006-06-19 12:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's either playing it cool or he's not interested anymore. But what fun is it if the flirting's gone? Find another guy to flirt with and see how he reacts or you could ask him directly, but that would kill the mystery.
2006-06-19 12:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by It's Not Me, It's You! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not a guy, but he probably means that you guys had each other already... flirting would be unnecessary after you hooked up...
2006-06-19 12:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by **me** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was a hunter out for the kill!!! he dined and is full
2006-06-19 12:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by gg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got him, reel him in! he's hooked!
2006-06-19 12:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go out with him again. see wat hapens den hookup as a couple
2006-06-19 12:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by kidmccloud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋