Help, I'm confused! I started a new job around 2 weeks ago, started flirting with one on my work mates and then a week and a half after meeting him went clubbing with him and ended up going back to his and sleeping with him. He's abit of a lady's man and seems like the sort of guy that sleeps around and deep down probably doesn't have much respect for anyone. He's really good fun and I fancy him like mad, should I get out now and aviod the possiblity of heartbreak or should I have a hot summer fling with this guy and get my kicks while im still young enough to get them? Thanks!
2006-06-19 12:15:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I always use protection and this was the first time a) I have ever spelt with someone after such a short period of time and b) outside of a relationship, hence the confusion, I'm new to this, and can't figure out if it was a really cheap thing to do yet!
2006-06-19 12:21:29 · update #1
you wnted it , so enjoy your life . be strong enough to do what you want to do .
2006-06-19 12:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by horras 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems that you have no moral inhibitions, about sleeping around.
You know what this guy is, and if the sex was good, and you both had a good time, and you know, what you are getting into, is just a summer fling, then go for it.
Just be careful, and use condoms and birth control.
2006-06-19 19:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of it, generally getting your kicks ends up with you being miserable for a while.
If he isn't interested in you for anything more than fun and sex, then you shouldn't be interested in him.
Men should respect women and its sad how most of us have fallen away from that.
2006-06-19 19:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by Idiotman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut your ties and move on. Why waste your time or your body? Respect yourself and focus on the task at hand: work. Make your money, live life respectfully with honor, and be happy. God bless you.
Jai
2006-06-19 19:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends what you really looking for. Me being a ladies man myself i say never regret, don't look back and just let the inevitable happen! Have fun while you still can.
2006-06-19 19:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should consider it what is was, a one night stand.
He has probibly moved on to the next one.
Just enjoy the time you had and find someone else, because Im sure he has.
2006-06-19 19:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by creskin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleeping with the co-worker...Not such a smart idea, sweetie.
2006-06-19 19:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by iluv_19990 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if you just want the cheap thrill.
Sounds like you don't and actually want someone to respect you.
2006-06-19 19:18:06 · answer #8 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it was a mistake. I never dip my pen in the company ink.
2006-06-19 19:21:03 · answer #9 · answered by 1/6,833,020,409 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get involved, can you handle seeing him everyday after the breakup? If not, then don't get involved.
2006-06-19 19:18:16 · answer #10 · answered by kal_718 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleeping with co workers generally a bad thing...................Hope it works out
2006-06-19 19:17:25 · answer #11 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋