I am so nervous to put in my resignation at work tomorrow! Any tips to make me less anxious?

Question

I have been working with this company for about 8 months. Everyone has been REALLY nice to me and everything. I am basically accepting this new job because it pays over 2 dollars more an hour, is a way shorter drive, and gives me more responsiblites. This is gonna come as a shock to my supervisor/co-workers as I have never mentioned even looking for a new job. I just don't want them to be upset with me, or rude to me. Especially when I am gonna have to be there for 2 more weeks. I am so nervous to talk to my supervisor tomorrow! Any suggestions to not be so nervous would be appreciated. I doubt I'll get any sleep tonite.

Answer 1

Just relax and remember that this is an all around better move for you. Believe me its not the first resignation your supervisor has ever received so it probably won't be as big as a shock as you anticipate it to be. Just let them know you appreciate the time working with them but it is time move on. Remember to smile and have a good attitude and everything will be just fine.

Answer 2

As far as your co-workers - they will probably ask more questions than be upset with you. If they are rude to you I would just say that you have to do what you have to in order to better your life.

As a manager myself, here's how I would have an ideal (if there is such a thing!) resignation go: I would want my employee to come to me privately and explain that an opportunity has presented itself that they could not pass up (more money, less commute, etc.). If those are your honest reasons, I think you should stress that it has nothing to do with your experience at your current job and point out something specific your supervisor has done that had a very positive effect on you. Don't kiss a** but keep everything very, very positive. And don't worry - 99% of the time employees don't tell their supervisors they are looking for a job so your supervisor will not (or should not) be put off by that. You don't even necessarily need to say you were looking... you could have been referred by a friend. The point is to show appreciation for what you have learned, appreciation for the opportunity to work there, and don't burn any bridges ever. Good luck!!!

Answer 3

As a former supervisor I can give you some advice. First, congratulations on your new job and for being mature and professional enough to give two weeks notice.

I have had people just up and leave rather than face me to tell me they were leaving. Very rude, immature and unprofessional.

Be direct and honest. Ask to speak with your supervisor in private.

Start with something like, I have really enjoyed working here for the last eight months because everyone here has been so nice to me. However, I have accepted a job with another organization because the role has more responsibility which I feel that I am ready for, as well as a a higher salary, which I really need. It's also much closer to my home and more convenient for commuting. I want to thank you for the opportunity that you have given me in this job. I have learned a lot and consider it to be a great experience.

If your supervisor is as nice as you say, he/she will understand that the new position holds several advantages for you and that you need to do what you need to do for the good of your own life and that sometimes you just have to look out for yourself.

Your best bet is to be gracious and professional and not to burn any bridges. You never know who you will work with again in the future!!!

Good luck!

Answer 4

I dont agree it has to be done in the morning, wait till near the end of the day and go in & speak to your supervisor and explain that you really have enjoyed working there & you are so grateful for the opportunity but that a new opportunity has come along that you can't pass up. Chances are she/he will understand and wish you luck. Make sure you are giving them plenty of time to replace you & let those you work with know how much you've grown from their experience & how much they will be missed. I left a job i was at 4 years to make a little more money & be closer to home, everyone was really great & supportive and i still keep in touch with my old boss. Good Luck !!

Answer 5

Relax...companies (and supervisors!), deal with this all the time. It may be your first time, but I'll bet it's not theirs. You might say something like, "I really enjoy working for you and I've learned so much from my coworkers. It makes it hard for me to tell you that I've decided to give my two weeks notice. I'm grateful for all your help and will work with you during my remaining time with the company to help train another person on my desk if that would be helpful to you." It is uncomfortable to do this - you're right. Just tell them the truth with kindness! You can do it!

Answer 6

It's never as bad as you think it's going to be, I just went through the same thing. One of the best ways to handle it is to say," It's just going to work out better for me, I have nothing against the company, everyone has been really nice and I've learned a lot but this job is just going to work out a little better for me. Relax and be honest, because I think you'll see that it's not as bad as your making it out to be, I'm the same way. Just be honest they will appreciate that and learn from it. It's definitely a legitimate worry, You'll do great.:)

Answer 7

Sounds like you have an awesome work environment now. Is it worth $2/hr to give that up?

I see a great workplace as being a job benefit in itself, like a 401/K, or vacation time.

If you have nowhere to go, with your current employer, and are ambitious, then go to the new one. But, if you like where you work, stick around, be the best you can be. Show them the asset they have in you, and you'll see raises and promotions.

You may even be able to bring it up to your boss, asking if they could review your performance and pay for consideration of a compensation adjustment.

Answer 8

Try and approach it from a professional instead of a personal approach. They are your business colleagues not your friends, however nice they are, you met them because you passed an interview in order that you could make money.
Now you have passed another interview to make more money.

This is the essence of working, no one does it for fun unless you are lucky enough to have a hobbyjob.
When you hand in your resignation be polite and smile, and above all don't show you are flustered.
If people are rude to you, instead of retreating into yourself, or being brash, simply imagine that you are surrounded by a white bubble that reflects all harm....and also picture them naked and sat on the toilet :)

Who knows, they may surprise you and be nice, they may even value you enough to offer you incentives to stay.

Answer 9

Just walk up to your supervisor, hand it over and explain that due to 'personal reasons', you'll have to resign. I'm sure he/she will understand since they seem to like you (or do they??). That's not the issue, the main thing is personal reasons could mean many things so they won't start drilling you about why you want to resign and all that....

Answer 10

Just say Hey i'm ______, i like _____, and _____is my favorite sport...I'm always hanging out with my friends, and my fav food is _____. Just say it how it is. get a back to school outfit to make you feel and look great, take a shower in the morning to feel refreshed and work really hard to make your make-up look good. Text your friends on the way to school about schedules or whatever. Be outgoing and talk to people on your bus, if they're a stranger stay confident. People will love you the way you are. Good luck!